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heretic909 Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 tell her you're gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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deeprock Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 1. Get alone with her. Don't do this on the phone!2. Relax. You are doing the right thing...she needs to know the truth.3. Tell her that you feel this relationship on its current level needs to end.4. Give her some time to let it sink in.5. If she tries to convince you to give her another chance, listen to her.6. Tell her that you've made up your mind.7. Tell her at what level you would like to keep your relationship (acquaintences, never-seens, friends, etc).8. Listen to her response. Respect her feelings about this new level9. Let her go when she feels she needs to end the conversation. Above all, be honest. Although breakups can be really hard on relationships, honesty will salvage any possible future friendship. You're doing the right thing in not dragging out a pointless relationship. Look at this like taking off a band-aid. Would you rather do it fast or slow? Which one hurts more? OR, As suggested already, tell her you're gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Ask her if she would break up with you if you cheated on her. Most likey shell say "yes" The say wel i cheated on you. then she will dump you and everyone goes home happy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lunalounge46 Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 honestly,this is what you do, just start arguing about things that happened in the past, keep bringing up stupid things that have happened, and pretend those things still make you angry and you can't get over it. have girls call you and leave crazy messages but make sure she hears those messages. basically, just get her to the point where she breaks up with you, because if you break up with her, she will call constantly on asking why did you this, why did you do that, it will drive you nuts, but if she breaks up with you, she made the decision, she feels at the advantage, and she won't be calling you, and it will be easier for her to move on. hence, you won't care and then it will be a hell of alot easier to be friends, hang out, and hang out with your friends. pretty decieving but it works, trust me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Originally posted by lunalounge46 honestly,this is what you do, just start arguing about things that happened in the past, keep bringing up stupid things that have happened, and pretend those things still make you angry and you can't get over it. have girls call you and leave crazy messages but make sure she hears those messages. basically, just get her to the point where she breaks up with you, because if you break up with her, she will call constantly on asking why did you this, why did you do that, it will drive you nuts, but if she breaks up with you, she made the decision, she feels at the advantage, and she won't be calling you, and it will be easier for her to move on. hence, you won't care and then it will be a hell of alot easier to be friends, hang out, and hang out with your friends. pretty decieving but it works, trust me. your a sick fuck but well said my friend, well said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 just be honest with her. tell her honestly how u feel and if she cant accept that, at least u know u were truthful. and in the long run, she'll respect u for that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karch Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 JUST TELL IT HOW IT IS!! That's the best way. Be honest.. that's all. Tell her the reasons and tell her what's going through your mind. Make sure your not an asshole about it though. Just be honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chynado11 Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Originally posted by karch JUST TELL IT HOW IT IS!! That's the best way. Be honest.. that's all. Tell her the reasons and tell her what's going through your mind. Make sure your not an asshole about it though. Just be honest. this is the best thing i feel too, obviously you havent been honest and look where its gotten you, totally miserable and your starting to hate her, which isnt good, try to keep it civil and end it, take her to dinner and break it to her that way or maybe something more of an intimate setting, so if she flies off the handle it wont be in public, if shes really a friend it might hurt at first but in the end she will respect your decision and not be immature about it, also once you do it make sure you are ready to do it or you will go back through the same vicious cycle that you have been going through and take her back and this time itll prolly be harder and more drama the next time around...my two cents hope it helps;)CD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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