Guest bellaragazza Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 I need your help! Tell me if I’m over reacting (i know it's long, i'm sorry)I just recently got back together with one of my exs. Things were super amazing at first and we spent about a week reconnecting and getting to know each other and basically just catching up on lost time.. Right after this bonding moment we shared he went back to playing his old bullshit and I’m not sure if I should believe his stories or just hit the road again..It all started last week. We spent an amazing night together but I wasn’t feeling well so I called it a night early. The next day I went to work early and throughout the day I think I paged him twice. So, he didn’t call me back and at first I just figured that he was sleeping so I let it go.. It was almost 6:00 p.m when I started to wonder what the fuck was going on so I called his house and his mom told me he wasn’t home. At first I was really upset because I figured that he just didn’t bother to call me like he usually did. Then at 9:00 p.m he finally called me. He didn’t say a word just said “hey whats up”. I wasn’t mean about it or anything but I just asked him nicely why he wasn’t returning my pages and he followed by telling me that his friend had called him the night before after I’d gone to bed and that his friend was bad tripping so he needed to rush him to the hospital and that is where he’d been all day. I was still super upset after that because honestly it would have taken him two seconds to run over to a pay phone and just give me a quick call and say something like “my friends really sick I wont be around so don’t worry”. But instead he chose not to. I find that really disrespectful because I know I’d do it for him. Now the problem continued this weekend when I confronted him about having to make an appointment to spend time with him. It seems that every time something better comes up he always ditchs me. I’m not the controlling type and I actually push him to go out with his friends or whatever but last night he really upset me.. He called to tell me he was going out and told me he’d be in early so that we could chill and come 11:30 I got a phone call from him telling me that he was going clubbing. I find this all so rude.Now, do you think I’m over reacting by getting upset about this or is he just being an asshole? He’s giving me such a hard time about this and making me feel like I’m such an irrational person and sooo terrible for letting stuff like this bother me.. I think it’s just a respect thing and I have every right to be upset..What do you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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