im in the same boat as you, the only places i can think of is Pacha And Webster Hall in NYC. Yes both you got to be 19 to get in But At Pacha If you throw some money at the doorman and not be an asshole, they would let you in, Webster Hall is the same way, im just lucky cause I got hookups, lol. But if you are lookin for good 18+ hotspots check out whiteplains and Queens. Theres a club called Krystals in queens, nice place, good music, much better then Vanity (DNA)