you ladies talk about men being rude, grabbing you and so on...I totally understand that and think that is low and pathetic. Never done that and never wanted to. However, do you think its simply because these men are such dogs or may be there is a reason for that? What would you call it when I try to talk to a girl or dance with her (and my friends, male or female, do consider me better than average looking) and she looks at me as if I disgust her and walks away? I would call that anything but friendly, outgoing or even feminine... I came from Russia 8 years ago, and can site not only that country, but most European countries, and even most US cities other than NYC, where girls come to have fun, not show their attitude. That is what most NYC girls are about: ATTITUDE. That is why, in my opinion, you have ass-grabing dogs, and 35-year old women who are still single and desperate to get married. Give MEN a chance...