Shallow-no.Think about it, when you meet someone, what you see is what your attracted to first, and if you "hang out", and let's say you hang out with more than one, when you compare and it comes down to it. You wanna be with the one with a bangin body,who will make it fun, and more steamy and s*xual. Not to say belly boys can't but when you can have both of best worlds..why settle for less?