Say you meet a man and he is cute and you are attracted to him. Do you make the first move on him.... or do you wait for him even though you really like him, will you wait for his move. But of he doesn't make that move will you be turned off, because he is a little shy. Well thats the problem I'm having. I am the guy who is a little shy, but I work with her that is one of the main reasons I keep debating the issue. HELP!!! [This message has been edited by ges1999 (edited 09-20-2000).]