Thanks for the responses. Great responses too, but, the sex has stopped! That's the problem. That's exactly what I want to do, keep her on the side while I find someone more serious (I don't mean this in a pig way, she actually loved hearing when I went out with other girls). As for finding another girl, for fun or for a relationship, I live in Toronto, not as easy as the states, it takes a while. So, I'm at the point where I don't know what to do, I still want her on the side.