I want to know how do people deal with getting snubbed in clubs...it seems that there are always rude people that you're going to encounter....is it any different in a club than in a bar..or any other place....it kills my high when I see somebody attractive and just want to make friends with them, and they reject you..wont even look at you....I never insist or force myself on people..always seem to move on...I just try to unite (as corny as that may sound)....But from what I observe - is that the the ruder you are, and the more arrogant one is, the more success one will have meeting people....is it just my perception- I hate to think that the club atmosphere promotes/(evokes) that... I hate arrogance, but I don't want to be idle in a club either...after all I'm there for the people its all about the crowd to put aside the music (the DJ and the deco and the rest) my self esteem is fine...I just want to know how the rest of you deal with it?...and are there good, and better ways to meet people in clubs PS is you want post up funny anecdotes of ways you met people ------------------ Midnight is where the day begins