Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that. A few questions, now does he have AIDS or HIV. Cause if he just contracted it then he only has HIV and people live upto 20 or even 30 years with HIV, if he just got it, then he still a long time from dying cause his immune system is still really strong, also there is a lot of medication now that can prolong life for people with HIV, but either way, its def a sad thing. Sorry man..