Hi Shuga.... O.K. here goes.... I have a grave fear of catching something I cannot cure, so therefore all of my lovers use condoms up to a certain point. Once it becomes a serious relationship, we take tests and than off with the condom. I have had them break and I have had them slip off (never up inside of me for any length of time)... Did you know that there are now edible condoms on the market???? IMO a condom is not 100% safe and does not always protect you, however in todays world, why take the risk, especially for a one nighter.