(and clearly Salteen will never graduate from Law school because he had a hard enough time making it through bumblefawk community). Blowflyii, don't listen to Salteen 'cause *clearly* he's a New Jersey wanna-be toughguy ignoramus. I don't care if it's your girlfriend in question, your mom, your dog or your local encyclopedia salesman. If someone tells you to back off, do so. It will never be worth all the time you waste chasing around. Instead, why don't you concentrate your energies on finding something, someone new and as you will eventually find out, better suited to you. See, things happen for a reason and the reason that things did not work out can only be explained by the fact that the relationship wasn't right for either of you. So the very best thing you can do is to reconcile that in your mind, pick up and see what else is out there. And not only will you be happier in the long run, but CP will be more accepting of you as well AND the drama can finally run its course and stop. Good Luck