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Thanks for the quick response...thats what I've been telling him, about the part that she makes it a point to talk shit about the roommate. Whats even more complicated is that the roommate's girlfriend is my friend's girlfriend's best friend...so the both of them would have a lot to lose if it ever came out, and the kid does seem to be really faithful to his girl as well. He think its probably nothing, but you know sometimes you get "that feeling"...it could also be that he's really in love with the girl so his thoughts are fucked up. The flirting that I've seen and that he's told me about is like that grade school nonsense of making fun of each other in that "I like you" sort of way. Who knows? Just thought I'd get some insight to give him. Thanks again...anything else from you or others is appreciated.

This situation's kind of complicated, but any advice or insight would be helpful... My friend has been with his girl for almost a year. He has been completely faithful and as far as he knows, so has she. They see each other almost everynight and all is cool. However, the girl has two roomates, both of whom are guys, one is gay and the other is the boyfriend of my friend's girlfriend's best friend. Whenever I chill with them, I sense a lot of flirting and stuff between the guy roomate and my friends girl...and I even pointed it out to my boy who said he has noticed it too, but didnt want to seem like a jealous guy for no reason. He's never been in a situation where a girlfriend of his has lived w/ another guy, and although this guy has his own girl (who like I said is his girl's best friend, he suspects something might be up, but doesn't want to go ahead with saying or doing anything if it's just a case of innocent roomate nonsense. Also, his girl often bad mouths the roommate to my friend when the guys not around...saying stuff like he's so conceited, spoiled, and not really attractive. I know this is the sex board so I figured you guys might have some advice or insight into this situation and my boy would appreciate some ideas. Please try to keep the responses "real", he's really kind of beaten up over it.

no problem dude...I was just confused and being a bit sarcastic on this thread anyway. anyway...I did enjoy our debate the other day..i tried giving you a shout on the board a few times, but you didnt respond...i wasnt looking for argument, just to say hello to someone who "battled" very well, IMO.

Huh?

I wish

Whats the deal kid?

What up bro?

Whats the difference between you and Kitty19?

Someone must know...because I feel bad that happened and I will boycott both of those clubs based on the fact that these four upstanding asian ravers in sheeps clothes were ousted from Exit or Twilo. Which one is blueangel? The fat one? Is that mitchell in the back...otherwise I cant figure any of this out and I really want to go out on Friday and Saturday but dont want to offend anyone that got thrown out of a club for being a non-drug using asian promoter.

Which place was this taken...and what time did they get thrown out?

No problem...I believe we both have good points and I hope all goes well with whatever happens... Its pretty funny though how people can hold an intelligent convo. when all preconceived notions are out the window.

Then, I agree with her that she and those who are in the same boat shouldnt go until either the dust settles, management changes, etc... we all know that complaining and trying to start a boycott is not going to impact anything...especially in a business as shady as clubs. The history of the industry is flooded with controversy whether because of the owners, patrons, drugs, other crimes, etc...and this is just another brick in the wall. On the other hand, if she (or others) dont go because of the recent activity, nothing is really going to change other than that these people are not going to hear the music/DJ's that they are so attached to. The club will ultimately not lose any money and the place will remain the same...but if management feels that by tossing asians or whomever is on the shit list will enhance the club and they get to a point where they dont feel a need to do these things anymore, such behavior will stop and overall the club will have a better feel to it. I know I have rambled on a lot here...but if you can get down to the nitty gritty of what I am saying, I believe that my point is very relative.

But if they have to take certain measures to enusre that their club stays open and some people have to get "run over" or pissed off along the way...that is how it is. It is quite evident that there are many people who truly dont like Asians in clubs (for whatever reason)...and if such mgmt/bouncer behavior will discourage Asians from coming then the club will either be less crowded (which isnt a bad thing for Twilo) or filled up with people who will get along better and not create a tense atmosphere. I am not pointing fingers at Asians or anyone else (and this thread did start out as a joke)...but if a club has to clean up its act and they think certain things/people have or will cause it to continue down the same negative path, they will take certain measures to ensure it wont happen even if it is not justified...justification is not there concern. Also, the comparison to the restaurant is senseless, because in a club people are involved in illegal activities, most prominently, selling or taking drugs...in a restaurant, this is generally not going to be the case. However, if a restaurant had bad experiences with a certain group of people...say not paying the check or giving the staff a hard time, etc...it might not be fair to place these actions on the whole race...but the restaurant might do certain things to not accomodate certain people.