I do think guys and girls can be friends. In fact I am really good friends with my first true love. But it took over a year for me to be able to even say hi to him. And now we talk about anything, about his relationships about mine, its like we have been best frieds forever, but there is no sexual attraction there anymore, well I guess there is, but we dont acknowledge it. The thing is wtih this guy, I had and still do alittle, major feelings for him, plus theres distance b/w us. I tried to explain to him that we just couldnt remain friends bc he would never be able to hang out wtih me bc of his gf, but he wont get it. I am trying to save anyone from getting hurt, but I think the only one whos gonna get hurt in the end is me.