I agree with you. Almost 2 years ago my ex and I broke up. He was my frist true love, We were together for over a year and I was heart broken when we broke up. I coudlnt eat, didnt want to go out or anything.Then he was like "Oh, youre my best friend I dont want to lose our friendship" I swore to him that I could never be friends wtih him, that it would hurt too much, but now almost 2 years later, we are great friends, Its funny to think about bc he even comes to me and talks to me about all his problems and stuff with his new gf! Funny how things work out