wildangel

Okay, now all I need is a man who can get the same results... Any girls wanna let me try out my supposed skills on them? I've never been with a woman, but I've always wanted to try.

Being "cool" = being yourself. :book:

Just be yourself, babe. Would you really drop/inject/inhale any drug just to be "accepted into club culture?" Come on, now. Seriously. (I have nothing against doing drugs, but I think it's stupid if you do them for the wrong reason - i.e. "to fit in" or "to be cool") Are you planning on moving to NYC? If so, I say take it easy and go slow. Feel things out, and don't do anything rash - find a good group of friends who can ease you into the scene, if that's what you want to do. Who knows, you might not like the club scene and decide it's not for you after all. And you're only 18 - are you going to try and "make it on your own" in the city?

If you've been one, how did you get into it and what do you think about it? For those who have visited one, what happened (if you feel like sharing)? For those of you who have friends who dabble in the scene, do they say anything worth repeating about it? I've been doing some reading on it, and it's a very interesting job/lifestyle. Much more psychological than physical. I know one girl who put herself through grad school dressing up in leather or latex and telling men they had small dicks for $100-500/hour.

It's hard to generalize. You really shouldn't, either, because if you do, you're only limiting yourself and your options. Regarding Asian females, there ARE Chinese/Japanese/Korean/etc. girls out there who are outgoing, fun, wild, and crrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrazy in bed (take me, for example ). Sure there are others who are more conservative, but if you assume they all are, you'll miss out on the freaky ones. I think you should stop worrying about what color you are and what color the other person is, and focus on WHO they are.

Ouch... I'd rather not use Bill as my standard. (remember, he "didn't inhale," either! )

Is it really that much more intense? Wow, if so, I don't know why every guy wouldn't be anxious to have girls (or guys, whatever floats your boat ) poking their pinkies up there. How far up does your girlfriend put her finger? (sorry to get so graphic, but it'd be good to know!) WHOA... I guess that answers my above question!! I think I'm going to talk it over with him first, make sure he's cool with it and that he won't smack me away if I try to do it, and then go for it. It should be a fun experiment. You should try everything at least once, right?

Okay, now I'm getting a little depressed. My boyfriend has a lot of good things going on for him, but what if he still refuses to go down on me? Would any of you girls dump your long-term boyfriend just because he wouldn't eat you out? I'm at the point where I'm considering having a little no-strings-attached fun with another guy (just to try it out, just once at least to see how it is! Maybe I won't even like it, LOL, I'm already in denial). Would that make me a bad person? :worry2: It wouldn't really be cheating on him, would it? Right now I'll hope for the best, that he does try it (even though he might not be that good, it being his first time and everything - I know I sucked my first time giving a blow job!). Monday's the Big Day!!

Thanks for all your support and advice, everyone. I've heard horror stories about DEPO. It'd probably have the same effect as the pills - I'd expect to gain 10-15 pounds, break out again, and go into depression with a lower sex drive. Not fun, I think I'll look for other options! Yeah, if we do start using condoms it's going to SUCK for him. He hasn't used a condom since he was 16!! His dick will probably be scared of it too. :worry2: Did you ever get used to it? If so, how long did it take? Having her put it on with her mouth is a good idea, maybe I'll practice beforehand with a dildo or something so it won't be too awkward. Aw, thanks bigwill. You're such a sweetie! I'll try and get my boyfriend to be less of a dick and more of a man. I'll see him for the first time in 2 months this Monday, and will let all of you know how everything goes sometime next week! Yeah, I definitely worry about that. Does it keep oozing out the entire time you have sex, or just that little bit at the beginning? Because I try to avoid it by sucking it a lot in the beginning, starting out with oral sex on him. That way, when I've licked all of the precum away, we can start making like bunny rabits.

She does look pretty uncomfortable. Maybe it was her first time taking such suggestive shots? I think her face is pretty average (most of the girls in Factory on Saturday night are prettier), but she does have a great body.

I was on ortho tri cyclen. That DEFINITELY didn't work for me, I gained 15 pounds and broke out so bad my face looked like a pizza! I guess it clears up skin for 9/10 girls, but it screws up the skin of that last 1/10!! Maybe I need something with a lower, constant dose. What would you recommend? I'm getting to the point where I'm starting to be more careful. I'm especially concerned about possibly geting pregnant or getting an STD. I trust my boy, but he's in an environment which could very easily lead him to temptation. While I'm hitting the books in the library on a Wednesday night, he's going to the bar with his single buddies, and he has his own apartment now, too. I think it'd really insult/offend him if I asked him to start using condoms now (especially since we haven't for 2 years, you know?). I just want to protect myself though, because I don't want to risk screwing up the rest of my life.

xxlea, he's white. An all-American boy from a small town, but went to school in NYC which wised him up a bit (but not enough apparently, LOL). Harsh, but maybe you're right. I mean, it's important for a couple to be sexually compatible, right? I'd hate to dump him, but this is something I DO want to experience sometime soon. And I guess I wouldn't want to cheat on him by having someone else go down on me, so I'll do that. I'll ask him for it nicely (someone here said I should be dominant, but that's not really my style), and see what happens. It'll all go down sometime early next week, I'll let you know what happens!

I used to be pretty crazy like that - if he was hot, why not, right? WRONG. I met this beautiful guy one night at a party, fucked him without a condom (DUMB, DUMB, DUMB!!) and tested positive the next week for chlamydia. Thank GOD I caught it early and that it's one of those diseases that 100% curable, so I'm 100% clean now, but that was the worst mistake of my entire life. Sucking down two watermelon-sized pills three times a day is NOT fun. That experience was enough to scare the shit out of me, and I stopped having one night stands after that. They're just not worth it for me, especially without protection (I still can't believe I did that, I was one naive 18 year old!). From that point on, I only slept with people who I cared about/was in a relationship with. If you can handle it, have fun! Just BE SAFE, because you never know what the other person might have (and you DON'T want to learn the hard way!!!).

When I was younger, I ALWAYS insisted my man wear a condom. No exceptions. If he didn't wear one, I wouldn't sleep with him. They were all cool with it, no problems. I met my current boyfriend 2 years ago, and the first time we slept together (2 months after we met, keep in mind), he REFUSED to use a condom. He said that ever since he fucked without one, he'd never go back to using one. He also said that he's used the pull-out method for years, and that it's pretty much 100% effective. I know I was dumb for doing it with him back then (he really didn't know me, I didn't really know him - neither of us knew anything about the other person's sexual history). But, almost two years later, we're still together and testing STD-free regularly. I was on the Pill for awhile, but stopped because I gained too much weight. So now we're JUST using the pull-out method, and he has really good control, so we've never had an accident. I was just wondering if this kind of behavior is normal? For those of you who are in a couple or not, do you always use protection? If so, what kind(s)? I have to admit, sometimes I'm still a little worried I'll get pregnant or that he's fucking around behind my back (I'm still in school, he's working and goes to the bar every night with his buddies until 1AM, which kinda upsets me ). But, he says to love and trust him, so I do. But if any of you have any suggestions for non-obtrusive birth control (for me, because he refuses to do anything), I'm all ears.

Eh, not very exciting or memorable at all. I was 18, a frosh in college, and my econ tutor started getting all freaky on me (he was 23 or 24, a HOTTIE but one of those without a personality). We did the deed, and I didn't even realize he'd penetrated me - he was THAT SMALL! Only about 4.5-5 inches, and he could never get fully hard. WTF is up with that? Are there some guys who can only get semi-soft??!! We slept together quite a few more times after that because I was curious and he was available, but I never had an orgasm with him. As for my first orgasm... now THAT was a different story.

First of all - tastyt, I LOVE the way you think, girl! I may just have to make you my mentor, sounds like you could teach me a couple of things. Yeah, I think you're right. So it'd be best for me to at least WARN HIM before I do it? I thought it'd be kinda cool/sexy to "surprise" him by just sticking it up there (probably right before he cums), but maybe that wouldn't be so cool or sexy after all. LOL, don't worry, my hands are pretty small and I have slender fingers. My second finger would probably work best, and be the most comfortable/easiest for me, too. I will, I promise. They're not super claw-long, maybe 1/4-1/2 inch or so? All I know is that it's a sensitive area, and I don't want to do any damage! Definitely, I'll be back with the results sometime Monday or Tuesday. Keep the tips/comments coming!

*taking notes* Great tips... I'll see him again on Monday, and I'll do my best trying to be dominant. I'm usually pretty submissive though, so this'll be a switch. Thanks for the offer. Seriously though, would a guy really do that? Go down on a female friend, or just a girl who never had it done before? Maybe this is terrible, but I'm seriously thinking I should try that... I still love my boyfriend and all, but I realllly want to experience this with someone who likes it and knows what he's doing.

I'm 21, and he's 23. :( What sucks (no pun intended) is that I LIKE going down on him because it turns me on. Is there anything I can do to change his mind? Okay, I'll try that. Thanks! Hey, I'm willing to sacrifice. Is there anything I can do to make myself "smell or taste" better? I keep myself VERY clean, completely smooth and shaved all the time. Is there anything I can eat or drink to make things as pleasant as possible for him? Okay, seriously, I'll PAY you to give my man lessons... why haven't I ever met a guy who honestly loves doing it??

Okay guys, I really need you to speak up here... how many of you feel the same way, and how many of you would be cool with a finger up your ass right before you cum?

Why do people scratch themselves when they're on heroin?

So G is more dangerous than K? Which high is better?

Yellow lamp, Factory.

...go down on me? He NEVER has. In fact, none of my boyfriends ever have. They've told me that they're either not good, don't like doing it, or that they've heard it "really isn't that great anyway." I want to try it at least once, though! I mean, you girls and most of my girlfriends have talked about mind-blowing orgasms with a man's tongue between their legs, and I want to see if I can experience that, too. Is there any way I can get him to go down there and LIKE IT? I'd feel bad if I knew he was going there "just to get it over with." Are there guys who just don't/won't do it? I hope mine isn't one of them, but that's what it seems like right now. :worry2:

OMG, if my boyfriend slapped me I'd never go down on him again!! I'd understand if he jumped a bit, but if he clocked me upside the head, he won't be getting any for a long time. Wow, I can't wait to try this... just 2 more questions. Which finger should I use (pinky's the smallest, should I stick with that one?), and should I cut my nails? (I have pretty long nails) We do our best...

It wasn't like the photographer forced them to do it. As consenting adults, they all volunteered willingly and were aware of what risk(s) they were taking.