I agree it just doesn't happen that way, in a sense it is almost to easy to meet someone at a club, that is what your all there for. Honestly I have never had a serious relationship w/ s-one I meet in a club........... and I never call, I will give u my # if you want to talk u call me...... I just DON'T call.............. The whole waiting to call thing, I don't know if your interested call, if she is to then great.............. I have had it work both ways, where they call right away and I am turned off and then not wait and I am dumbfounded.............. It really all depends on the guy.,