well said erica, there is a lot more to life than a hot body, most of those guys are not worth the trouble i dated a big 6'3 italian guy for a while, this kid could have played for the giants, but he was the sweetest most genuine guy ever. when we first met, i was not attracted to him right away but after getting to know him i couldnt get enough. i felt so secure with him and our sex was great because we were so emotionally connected. i wish more guys had half as much respect.