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actually just curious if thats the truth- if you become this person who start showing her love- affection- then she will know that she can have you and become less interested

I have this distorted view I guess- I keep thinking that if a girl likes you- you should play hard to get? because if you statrt giving affection she will lose interest?

sometimes I see her- and I'll walk by without saying hi- is that good to do? like- the challenge- or is that just stupid because it will make her not want to waste time?

there's this girl I like- she shows me signs that she is interested- we were running on the treadmill lol- and she asked if I want to race- lol- I didn't know he before that- we were talking from there- I would see her once in a while after that- she looks back at me while walking, etc....now- I don't know if I should ask her on a date- I think she just got out of a relationship- I would see her sometimes- but not say hi- I like her- but I don't want to lose her interest level?

is there a best way to ask a girl on a date? as in instead of saying- "would you ever want to go on a date with me?" or "is there a chance me and you could go on a date?" obviously it would be better to enforce it more by saying "let's go to the movie on night" what does eveyone else use?

linabina, u agree?

.a lot of people always say "how is that hot girl going out with that guy"? how did he get her? probably cause he does not give her much attention? has good game?

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A lot of people say that always the assholes get the girls- this is because they are a challenge and rarely show affection, etc- is it possible for someone nice to become a challenge without turning into an asshole?

so you're saying that if he isn't a challenge it won't go far?

what do girls like more??

tastey- yo're saying that telling her you can't see anymore creates more of a challenge or is just something to break her heart?

Anyone here use Reason 2.5 and feel that it is better than Acid?

If a girl thinks that you are cute- should you play it off and not show that you are interested at first? or the best way is to show that you are?

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Ya- but usually the person who you were friends with- you were a challenege to without realizing it-

Do you have a better chance of getting into a reltionship with a friend than stranger?

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Then should a guy jkust play it cool the whole time making believe that he does not care? I know that it is not always the case- when guys become- "whipped" the girl wants absolute control- in the case- is the girl showing that she really loves him- or is it a control issue

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do strong relationships usually occur when a guy finally gives into a girl who he knew liked him for a while? That way the girl knows that she finally has something she wanted for a long time, and the guy knows that she really likes him, he stays with her

When a girl likes a guy, and he knows, when he begins to show that he really likes her and tells her this, will the girl then back off? Will he just be a feat to the girl knowing that she ca have him? does he always have to play hard to get and never tell her he really like her? Is the girl/ guy that we want just a challenge and once we have them we don't like them?

Do relationships ever work where a guy like a girl first? I know it is a lot better, for guys, when a girl sweats a guy and then he finally starts liking her. ??

okay, cool. thanks guys! she seems like a nice girl, I thought maybe hanging out just as friends would be cool and then maybe it could grow from there? Would there be any potential for getting toward a relationship in hanging out that night? thanks!

I know a girl from Italian class. She is cute, and has the personality I look for. I got her screen name one day and asked if I could study with her study group before one of the tests. SHe said that it would be no problem. The class is finally over, and I still talk to her online. I asked her what she was doing over the break and she said she was hanging out with friends. I asked her about if she had someone special during Christmas and she said just her cousin and her daddy. It was good until I asked her to hang out over the break. I asked her if she wanted to play pool one day during the break. She said that she does not play pool, but we could go for coffee one day. I said maybe next week we can go? but she said that she couldn't and maybe the week after. I said that I'd let her know if I could. After I said that she said too bad another girl, let's say "Nicole" for example, could not come with us. Was it not obvious I was asking her on a date? was she not interested in me at all? Any way I can find out if she would go on a real date without being pushy? Thanks for any help!