It seems like she's really old fashioned when it comes to relationships. Where has she been hiding all these years! I don't know of any friends that have been virgins when they got married. I'm not saying it doesn't exist but I think that's hard to come across these days. Maybe she isn't hiding anything and is very shy. Try to take it slow.
The one thing that kills my buzz is when people decide to get a ride with me to a club and then start complaining that they want to go home. IF THEY WANTED TO BE HOME AT A CERTAIN TIME, THEN SHOULD HAVE TAKEN THEIR OWN CAR!!!!