What I wish women knew: - how you carry yourself influences how i perceive you - Just because i think you're hot doesn't preclude me from liking your personality - The amount a guy likes a girl is not inversely proportional to the amount of time before they have sex; it is directly proportional to how much the guy likes the girl. If you respect yourself the morning after, chances are we will as well - there is more than one way to suck a dick - there are a multitude of degrees of sexual contact besides intercourse that are fun, relatively safe, and pretty guilt-free - if a guy doesn't call as soon as you'd like, call him yourself - if you want a guy to talk to you, go up to him and say anything; he will probably respond kindly - don't go out dressing hot just to tease; it brings you ill will and bad karma - please respect a sort of mourning period after a break-up where you do not sleep with your ex's friends. - not everybody is looking at you / talking about you. they are carrying on in their normal lives thinking normal thoughts. - spend less time analyzing, more time being - touch us, we like to be touched - if we're being shy, it's because we're letting you to set the pace. we'd set it, but we want you to feel comfortable. - understand when we approach you, we are burdened with the risk of rejection - your best friends don't always have your best interests in mind; some are conniving and back-stabbing - give us the benefit of the doubt; we know more than we let on - don't assume that if we find ourselves alone in a room that we'll strive to take your clothes off. - we like to be seduced to. try it, you might like the rush of being the hunter. - sex is not a commodity you trade for something. it's something you do because you want to. - don't always second-guess yourself; don't let others make decisions for you - if you seek out jerks, don't complain about not having a nice guy sometimes you gotta pick one or the other. - a period of silence does not imply a Cold War is taking place. people are just unavailable sometimes to communicate, don't take it personally. - grudges destroy relationships. nip them in the bud. - if you have something to get off your chest, say it directly, don't beat around the bush. Carry on......