Women simply love a Challenge and none is more true for when it comes to the opposite sex . They simply aren't attracted to things that are easily atained . Therefore playing "hard to get " or "dis-interested " is a tactic that works well with women . But I do think that the right time to tell her how you actually feel is after you become intimate with her , and if your good in the SACK then you don't really have much to fear as for her leaving or backing off from you as .........YOU got her HOOKED on your skills . Well, thats how i perceive things........