i've been hurt, not b/c a guy didn't call me to tell me we were over though.. i mean yes, closure is nice to a point, but i think you finally get closure once you deal with it yourself and can come to terms with what happened, you don't need a call saying "i don't wanna fuck you anymore" to come to closure... i mean damn, what happened to self-respect.. fuck getting respect from someone else if you can't respect your own self...