i actually kind of agree with that.... i have athis one guy right now that would do anything for me and he treats me really well...but i KNOW i can get whatever i want and kind of use it to my advantage sometimes =/ the guy i really would luv to have right now....isnt the nicest in the world, but im more attracted to him... so it does have a lot to do with looks...maybe the guyz with lower self esteem feel they need to buy girlz things to keep them around, while the guyz that know theyre hott can get whoever they want