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  1. Quality of women in the scene

    in New York / New Jersey

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    This is a great topic that's up for debate here!! First off I think that clubs and bars are the worst places to meet quality women. It took me awhile to figure this out because I enjoy the scene too much and didn't want to believe it at first. Now I do though. Most girls that go to clubs or bars are either: teases, gold diggers, junkies, or whores. Many are confused as well. A majority of these girls I find listen to hip hop. Now not all girls fall into these categories, but it seems like a majority do though. There are some girls that are into the scene and enjoy EDM and have respect for themselves, but the percentages are very low. I know women in the city have attitude, but it comes with the territory so it doesn't bother me. My approach when going out in the city is I go out w/my boys to a club to listen to a particular dj and enjoy the scene, vibe, along with the music. I don't prioritize looking for a quality person when I go out. Nor do I make it a priority to "hook up" either. If it happens it happens and if it doesn't I still enjoyed myself. It's really tough to hold a conversation w/someone at club when you can barely hear yourself think!!

    I've rarely seen people that have met at clubs turn into boyfriend and girlfriend and eventually have a meaningful relationship of many years. A friend of mine did, but it's usually not the norm. I'd like to meet someone in the scene who's cool and down to earth and enjoys dancing and EDM that I could introduce to my folks, but I'm realistic and know it's usually a long shot!! Most people at clubs are shady, both men and women. If you meet someone that you're really attracted to at a club and you want pursue something with them then I'd say go with your gut instinct before you decide to date that person. The bottom line is if your objective is to find a gf or bf then searching for one in a club is the absolute worst place to begin your search!! I'd recommend going elsewhere like say start at a church, university, gym, or try networking through your friends. Try new hobbies and activities as well. People usually go to clubs to let loose, dance, and listen to music NOT to look for gf's or future wives!!

    wow.. this is a bash session on men and woman.. lol.... i dont sterotype.. i just think that 90% of the population sux... men and woman..... so here is my problem.. everyone on here is saying that u cant find a boyfriend or girlfriend in the club scence and i get so frustrated w/that statement....when u are looking to start a relationship w/someone arent' u looking for someone who enjoys the same things as u.. i would rather be w/a guy who is going to come to the club w/me and get excited that dj so and so is spinning.. did u ever see someone who is not in the scene face expression when u started talking about jp.. dt.. tiesto..etc.. they look at u like ur nutz.. lol.. i dont know thats just my opinion.. so if u cant meet people in clubs then where do u meet someone interested in the same things u are? :dj:

  3. Quality of women in the scene

    in New York / New Jersey

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    hah if you trying to find a good woman at a club...oh man seriously are you for real, only skanks n cock teasin hoes, you should know better, for shame.

    hey listen im not stinking up for all females.. but i will speak for myself and my best friend.. we go out for the dj's and the music.. tank tops and jeans.. we dont sit there waiting for guys to come over and buy us drinks.. but than we get looked at like stuck up because we are there to dance.. :blah:

  13. hopefully moving to flor

    in Miami

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    lol.. i got a lot of attitude from the girls the last time i was out there.. i thought it was just because u can tell that i was from ny so i have been told from my look and how i dance.. um.. looking in the area of fort lauderdale.. unless anyone has any suggestions.. :bounce:

  14. hopefully moving to flor

    in Miami

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    hey all.. im dee. i live in ny but im hopeufully going to be a flor resident in march.. lol.. i know that flor really dont like ny people but i definitely dont fit the ny stuck up bit**h style.. well just wanted to say hi.. hope to see you soon.. :party:

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