clubkat Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 I know at one point everyone gets a little insecure with other women/men being around their significant other. .(i know, ive been there too)BUT GOD DAMN CAN U GROW SOME BALLS AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER?? YOU CANT JUST LET YOUR RELATIONSHIP FEED OFF OF INSECURITY!!!! better yet, just say something if u see something thats bothering you going down. . .because if u dont, your non existant balls will get stepped on by "the other person"!!!!this public service announcement bought to u by: Kat - Relationship Counselor at Large Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 Originally posted by clubkat I know at one point everyone gets a little insecure with other women/men being around their significant other. .(i know, ive been there too)BUT GOD DAMN CAN U GROW SOME BALLS AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER?? YOU CANT JUST LET YOUR RELATIONSHIP FEED OFF OF INSECURITY!!!! better yet, just say something if u see something thats bothering you going down. . .because if u dont, your non existant balls will get stepped on by "the other person"!!!!this public service announcement bought to u by: Kat - Relationship Counselor at Large I don't even know where to go with this one...Insecurities can turn into some major intimidation....which makes people back away from confrontations of any kind.Bottom line...if the person your with is allowing your insecurities to follow through...then there's a real problem there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted June 9 Author Report Share Posted June 9 babies. . .im just peaches and cream ive just been noticing alot of this trait in women these days. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 Originally posted by clubkat babies. . .im just peaches and cream ive just been noticing alot of this trait in women these days. . . lol...funny...I didn't even think this was pertaining to you...it was just a general statement...:::imagine kitty biting her tongue when being challeneged for her man::: That would never happen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 Originally posted by marcid21 lol...funny...I didn't even think this was pertaining to you...it was just a general statement...:::imagine kitty biting her tongue when being challeneged for her man::: That would never happen deffff. not.... and why should she bite her tongue?! WHY SHOULD ANY OF US BITE OUR TONGUES?! shiiiiiit... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 Being insecure sucks! Coming from plenty of relationships where I know that I was honest about everything only to walk away getting hurt myself, it's very difficult for me to not feel insecure at all, something I'm trying to work on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 i dont get why guys get pissed when another dude is around their girl. seriously..this is the way i look at it...if your good enough to them u dont have to worry about losing them , if they like u enough they wont do anything stupid. now...if they dont like u and they wana hook up with someone theyre gona do it regardless of whether u run around them and try to prevent this. this is y i never really stress over who my gf is with or what shes doing...why would i wana waste valuable time and energy on wondering if shes gona decieve me...if shes gona do it...shell find a way to do it and i cant do shit about it...The End Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 9 Report Share Posted June 9 Originally posted by ghhhhhost i dont get why guys get pissed when another dude is around their girl. seriously..this is the way i look at it...if your good enough to them u dont have to worry about losing them , if they like u enough they wont do anything stupid. now...if they dont like u and they wana hook up with someone theyre gona do it regardless of whether u run around them and try to prevent this. this is y i never really stress over who my gf is with or what shes doing...why would i wana waste valuable time and energy on wondering if shes gona decieve me...if shes gona do it...shell find a way to do it and i cant do shit about it...The End You're absolutely right. Unfortunately, for some of us, it is not something that is easy to control. But I'm working on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 i try man...people tell me im cold and callous...but u know what...shit happens..and u learn to move on...i always prepare myself for the worst..if u do that..ur always pleasantly surprised Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by ghhhhhost i try man...people tell me im cold and callous...but u know what...shit happens..and u learn to move on...i always prepare myself for the worst..if u do that..ur always pleasantly surprised See, i need to take a page out of your book, man.I let myself get hurt by this girl b/c i didn't realize her insecurities would be such a bother.I kept giving and giving to her, without receiving much back. I tried to brush it off and think her insecurity would pass, but it just got worse. Now i know, and knowing is half the battle (thanks G.I Joe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 trust me G....sometimes it sux bein like that..but it works...ur never dissapointed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by clubkat I know at one point everyone gets a little insecure with other women/men being around their significant other. .(i know, ive been there too)BUT GOD DAMN CAN U GROW SOME BALLS AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER?? YOU CANT JUST LET YOUR RELATIONSHIP FEED OFF OF INSECURITY!!!! better yet, just say something if u see something thats bothering you going down. . .because if u dont, your non existant balls will get stepped on by "the other person"!!!!this public service announcement bought to u by: Kat - Relationship Counselor at Large Very true! sometimes you just have to give things freedom and see what they do with it, no point in being slaves and constantly around each other. A relationship is like sand in your hand squeeze tightly and the sand will seep through your fingers, leave your hand freely and unclutched and the sand remains. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by rdancer Very true! sometimes you just have to give things freedom and see what they do with it, no point in being slaves and constantly around each other. A relationship is like sand in your hand squeeze tightly and the sand will seep through your fingers, leave your hand freely and unclutched and the sand remains. :cry: But i wanna keep squeezing ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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