tastyt Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Ladies... I am suffering from a major lack of both imagination and sex drive... I need some advice on anything that can spur me on... orgasms just aren't that much fun when you don't have the proper inspiration while getting there.What do you use to get off? Not vibrators and such, but what arouses your mind? And not porn because that usually bores me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 As I'm quite a racer, I usually haven't even come up with a thought....and wopppddeeedooohhhh.... over the finish line. So mmmhh, I don't really know...I've never watched porn so I can't make any comment, I would imagine though that it arouses me. Other than that....when my sexdrive is low...than I just leave it at that....it's not that I get pimples from a lack of orgasm... or do I Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 IDK- my skin hasn't exactly been in the best condition lately! Besides, it's a great way to relax for at least a few minutes... better than a valium... it would just be nice to be able to see them as something other than a substitute to barbiturates... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 um isn't someone supposed to be taking care of these needs of yours? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Dy...you and I are in the same boat...and I'm about to jump overboard!!!!...I'm seriously thinking of tapping into the "bootie reserves"...not like that'll spark anything...but like you said..."relaxation"...if only for a little while at least. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 Originally posted by cintron um isn't someone supposed to be taking care of these needs of yours? Yeah, what's up wit dat? I suggest you send him a message pronto! We'll pull together a committee, sign some petitions... :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Break some heads... grease some local politicians... seriously girl if you're having issues porn DOES helpif it isn't working for you, i suggest you get in the bathtub and put on something seriously sexy... Like Tricky or something.Having toys helps. And just let it happen... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 Originally posted by cintron Break some heads... grease some local politicians... seriously girl if you're having issues porn DOES helpif it isn't working for you, i suggest you get in the bathtub and put on something seriously sexy... Like Tricky or something.Having toys helps. And just let it happen... Tricky... hmm... now there's an idea... behold- the powers of trip-hop... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 get a webcam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdeelite Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 tricky, portishead, or massive attack...they reek sex.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 a luke warm shower, candle light and a good shower head do the trick everytime. Do it right before bedtime and I promise you will sleep like a baby!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 hmmm...i think i am in the same boat...i had a few glasses of wine and a nice bath tonight and it just didn't work...may try the porn thing or may just hold out on my test of willpower a few more weeks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 lol where did i write most girls are sexually frustrated? ah can´t find it right now. anyway, girls, what the fuck are you doing? get out and get yourself a MAN to DO you! i mean it is easy as a guy to get some, it *should* be piss easy for a girl. i mean if nothing else invite some old friend over (cause every guy that is your friend WANTS to fuck you, if you don´t believe me offer it to him and see if he declines ) and just fuck. where´s the problem with that? it´s safe cause you know each other already and you can trust him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 not a bad line of reasoning...then again i know i'm not the guy girls would call, so i suppose staring impatiently at my phone all morning isn't going to do shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by tastey lol where did i write most girls are sexually frustrated? ah can´t find it right now. anyway, girls, what the fuck are you doing? get out and get yourself a MAN to DO you! i mean it is easy as a guy to get some, it *should* be piss easy for a girl. i mean if nothing else invite some old friend over (cause every guy that is your friend WANTS to fuck you, if you don´t believe me offer it to him and see if he declines ) and just fuck. where´s the problem with that? it´s safe cause you know each other already and you can trust him. this is about masturbation not getting fucked by some random "friend".. personally i agree with you, if you are really that frustrated that you dont even desire to masturbate, the best thing for you is to be with someone, preferably someone new because that will most likely get you going the most. hehe, if you dont wanna be with anyone i suggest you do something a little crazy, like what i said earlier Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 i suggest writing your own porn/erotica scripts. ... create scenarios and try to describe them in detail (extra points for eloquence) on paper. i find that having to think hard about sex, and describing sexual experiences, tends to make me rather horny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 24 Author Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by tastey lol where did i write most girls are sexually frustrated? ah can´t find it right now. anyway, girls, what the fuck are you doing? get out and get yourself a MAN to DO you! i mean it is easy as a guy to get some, it *should* be piss easy for a girl. i mean if nothing else invite some old friend over (cause every guy that is your friend WANTS to fuck you, if you don´t believe me offer it to him and see if he declines ) and just fuck. where´s the problem with that? it´s safe cause you know each other already and you can trust him. 1. I'm not going to fuck someone just for the sake of fucking him- been there, done that, bought the t-shirt. It's really not a whole lot of fun, and definitely not my cup of tea. 2. I already have someone highly qualified for the position, but unfortunately I'm not able to chain him to my bed and keep him at my beck and call. i suggest writing your own porn/erotica scripts. ... create scenarios and try to describe them in detail (extra points for eloquence) on paper. i find that having to think hard about sex, and describing sexual experiences, tends to make me rather horny That has actually occurred to me... I guess now I just have to put it into practice!BTW, there is an easy, albeit temporary, solution, which worked very well last night... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bustaknut2001 Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 I heard that most women cross their legs and sqeeze repeatedly as their primary source of masturbation. That's why most girls can't have orgasms during regular sex. Is this true girls? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 24 Author Report Share Posted July 24 Originally posted by bustaknut2001 I heard that most women cross their legs and sqeeze repeatedly as their primary source of masturbation. That's why most girls can't have orgasms during regular sex. Is this true girls? No- that would never get me off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stasis Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 foo urodka Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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