aboyfrombklyn Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 why it seems like the person I'm seeing now doesn't want a certain person to know that we're seeing each other. Hmmmmmmmm! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvetgoldmire Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 It could be for various reasons... none good. I don't see how keeping a secret about seeing someone can be acceptable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn why it seems like the person I'm seeing now doesn't want a certain person to know that we're seeing each other. Hmmmmmmmm! Who is the certain person, is it an ex or something ? MORE INFO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by rdancer Who is the certain person, is it an ex or something ? MORE INFO yeah thats what i was thinking too. if thats the case obviously she stil has feelings. no matter the situation, it is sketchy.fuck her in the ass and leave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted August 7 Author Report Share Posted August 7 Turns out she's afraid to even let her mom know. Being that I would be her first boyfriend, I'm confused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meli2444 Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn Turns out she's afraid to even let her mom know. Being that I would be her first boyfriend, I'm confused. Is she really young? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted August 7 Author Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by meli2444 Is she really young? No, she's older than me. She's 25. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn No, she's older than me. She's 25. Dude, that's weird~I was once going out with this muslim girl, who's parents were the Real Deal Muslim religion. She also wanted to keep our relation hush hush, prolly in fear that they might find out she was going out with this blonde crazy guy, LOL...It started to bother me at times when we were out in the public, and she wouldn't want to hold my hand. I was like WTF?/? Still, i don't know why she wants it so low-key. You might want to talk to her and understand where she's coming from. You might hear some things you don't want to hear, but sometimes the truth DOES hurt, that's just how it goes. But from what you've said about this girl, id take things slow. Seems like she's a bit hesitant, so just downshift into 2nd gear for now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn No, she's older than me. She's 25. umm a 25 year old who has never had a boyfriend.. gimme a break. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phillydiva Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn Turns out she's afraid to even let her mom know. Being that I would be her first boyfriend, I'm confused. Damn...must be REALLY young.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phillydiva Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn No, she's older than me. She's 25. She's 25 and she's afraid to tell her MOMMY....come on now...that's just SKETCHY....or something... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phillydiva Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by somebitch umm a 25 year old who has never had a boyfriend.. gimme a break. I know, right?? WTF?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 That's a whole lotta Scetch right there................ Doesn't make sense..................... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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xtotaleclipsex Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Ok my only guess is she's had only girlfriends before not boyfriends ?? and she's scared to tell her mom that she is not a lesbion???.........am I close?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 I'm guessing that when you say she's never had a boyfriend, you mean a serious boyfriend??? At the age of 25, that's just not kosher. If she really said she's never had any kind of boyfriend, that's just not true.Why doesn't she want her mom to know you two are dating? What is her rationale (not that there's really any way to justify that) ??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Maybe it's her religion or culture. Maybe her parents are super strict..............? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phillydiva Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by perns2002 Maybe it's her religion or culture. Maybe her parents are super strict..............? PARENTS?? WHo the hell cares....she's 20 fucking 5....I'm 25 and I haven't listened to my parents (about dating and shit they can tell me NOT to do) for YEARS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted August 8 Author Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by perns2002 Maybe it's her religion or culture. Maybe her parents are super strict..............? We spoke last night for a while after messing around and she asked me if I thought we were being too physical. She explained to me that she doesn't believe in sex before marriage and that what we do is all so new to her, and that it's a little scary at times. She's really shy when it comes to a lot of things (intimacy, public displays of affection, etc.) But she's really a great person and I don't think she is hiding anything from me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn We spoke last night for a while after messing around and she asked me if I thought we were being too physical. She explained to me that she doesn't believe in sex before marriage and that what we do is all so new to her, and that it's a little scary at times. She's really shy when it comes to a lot of things (intimacy, public displays of affection, etc.) But she's really a great person and I don't think she is hiding anything from me. Well best of luck to you too.......... Nothing wrong with wanting to wait for marriage for sex........... That's how it used to be afterall. Pss (my mom was a virgin when she was married) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn We spoke last night for a while after messing around and she asked me if I thought we were being too physical. She explained to me that she doesn't believe in sex before marriage and that what we do is all so new to her, and that it's a little scary at times. She's really shy when it comes to a lot of things (intimacy, public displays of affection, etc.) But she's really a great person and I don't think she is hiding anything from me. But what does that have to do with her not wanting her Mom to know you two are dating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted August 8 Author Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by tastyt But what does that have to do with her not wanting her Mom to know you two are dating? It's hard to explain. I went with her to visit her family in Virginia two weeks ago and we stayed at her mother's house. It's just hard for her when her family labels me as her boyfriend. Like I said, she's new to all of this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meli2444 Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by aboyfrombklyn We spoke last night for a while after messing around and she asked me if I thought we were being too physical. She explained to me that she doesn't believe in sex before marriage and that what we do is all so new to her, and that it's a little scary at times. She's really shy when it comes to a lot of things (intimacy, public displays of affection, etc.) But she's really a great person and I don't think she is hiding anything from me. It seems like she's really old fashioned when it comes to relationships. Where has she been hiding all these years! I don't know of any friends that have been virgins when they got married. I'm not saying it doesn't exist but I think that's hard to come across these days. Maybe she isn't hiding anything and is very shy. Try to take it slow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liteflyr Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by xtotaleclipsex Ok my only guess is she's had only girlfriends before not boyfriends ?? and she's scared to tell her mom that she is not a lesbion???.........am I close?? haha i'm with you on this one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted August 8 Report Share Posted August 8 Originally posted by xtotaleclipsex Ok my only guess is she's had only girlfriends before not boyfriends ?? and she's scared to tell her mom that she is not a lesbion???.........am I close?? This i doubt. Sounds too much like a soap opera scene, and this girl doesn't sound like she's got that much baggage. Originally posted by meli2444 It seems like she's really old fashioned when it comes to relationships. Where has she been hiding all these years! I don't know of any friends that have been virgins when they got married. I'm not saying it doesn't exist but I think that's hard to come across these days. Maybe she isn't hiding anything and is very shy. Try to take it slow. I think you nailed it on the head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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