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Ok, so my boyfriend works the worst hours and has a hard time getting off work. His friends are going to Vegas for Labor Day weekend and I'll be at the shore and the poor guy has work all weekend. So before he was like, I bet you're happy I'm not going and I said, yeah, a little cause you'll be here. So, I think he got a little upset over it and got off the phone. I trust him though so if he went, it really wouldnt matter. Do you think I am being selfish for being happy?

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you cant change your feelings what you feel is what you feel and you dont control that... is it selfish??? absolutely not because you didnt make him stay, or force him to... so my two cents is simply enjoy the time together and if he doesnt this weekend down the road he will... why not next time you both have some free time go to vegas together???

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Your comment probably rubbed him the wrong way simply b/c he really wanted to go w/his friends. It's selfish, but you know what, there's *always* going to be a little bit of selfishness in a relationship... it's normal to want the things important to us nearby...

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Thanks, that makes me feel a little better. True- it's not like I told if he went we would break up or anything, it's just the way things worked out. Actually, we do want to plan a trip to Vegas soon. Hopefully that will make up for it.

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Originally posted by lollib

Thanks, that makes me feel a little better. True- it's not like I told if he went we would break up or anything, it's just the way things worked out. Actually, we do want to plan a trip to Vegas soon. Hopefully that will make up for it.

i´ve never been there, but i head a trip to vegas is better to be taken without your girl ;)!

seriously, dg is right, time to make it up for you. invite a good female friend over and surprise him with a dinner for two... with your friend being the dinner ;)

anyway, i´m out hunting, have not been in some time, gotta stay fresh :devil:

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