marcid21 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 ...and I'm not talking marathons......anyone else find themselves constantly running from potentially wonderful situations???...Never really letting yourself get to the good stuff...cause your too much of a wuss??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Nope... I'm a tenacious motherfucker. To a fault, perhaps.But for those who do run... why do you think you do it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 i never get to any stuff........ no really, i rarely ever find potentially wonderful situations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 . . . All the time . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 It's part of the neverending vicious cycle of life....we run from what could possibly be a wonderful thing and stick around for the crappy stuff....IMO..you run from potentially good situations b/c after being through so many bad ones when something gets good we are afraid it might get too good (if that makes any sense) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mangledx Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by sweetie029 It's part of the neverending vicious cycle of life....we run from what could possibly be a wonderful thing and stick around for the crappy stuff....IMO..you run from potentially good situations b/c after being through so many bad ones when something gets good we are afraid it might get too good (if that makes any sense) good answer... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted September 5 Author Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by sweetie029 It's part of the neverending vicious cycle of life....we run from what could possibly be a wonderful thing and stick around for the crappy stuff....IMO..you run from potentially good situations b/c after being through so many bad ones when something gets good we are afraid it might get too good (if that makes any sense) Some of us don't even stick around for the crappy stuff, and have abandoned the idea all together.I'm not exactly sure where past relationships are overlapping with present ones....I just know I can't shake this urge to constantly fade to black.Do you think it's my sub-concious trying to make something I already know sink in? It's really frustrating....I'd really love to just sit back and enjoy the view...rather than get all worked up over this nonsense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by marcid21 Some of us don't even stick around for the crappy stuff, and have abandoned the idea all together.I'm not exactly sure where past relationships are overlapping with present ones....I just know I can't shake this urge to constantly fade to black.Do you think it's my sub-concious trying to make something I already know sink in? It's really frustrating....I'd really love to just sit back and enjoy the view...rather than get all worked up over this nonsense. ...The problem is..a lot of us THINK TOO MUCH about situations...if you do too much thinking about things going bad..how can they ever get good? If things go good you just have to let them put aside doubts and overwhelming feelings and go with the flow....If you over analyze a situation you might let a good thing pass you by Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by somebitch i never get to any stuff........ no really, i rarely ever find potentially wonderful situations. Ha, I was thinking the exact same thing...My situation is the opposite, I tend to stay in bad situations for too long...Maybe this just isn't the time for you to be in a relationship. Maybe you have some personal issues to work on before getting involved with someone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by sweetie029 we are afraid it might get too goodCan you explain what you mean by "too good?" I find it *easier* to stay in good situations because I've had bad situations and I'm relieved -- not scared -- when I find a good one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by hoke Can you explain what you mean by "too good?" I find it *easier* to stay in good situations because I've had bad situations and I'm relieved -- not scared -- when I find a good one... Simple- When something is "too good" people can start to back off because they're afraid of becoming too attached, getting too close, opening themselves up, falling in love... and then, getting hurt... Ultimately, setting themselves up for a fall... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by tastyt Simple- When something is "too good" people can start to back off because they're afraid of becoming too attached, getting too close, opening themselves up, falling in love... and then, getting hurt... Ultimately, setting themselves up for a fall... Of course.*slaps forehead*Good point.I guess I don't fear opening myself up like that (or rather, not much -- of course there's a little of that) because I know from experience that time heals the wounds and you come out of it a wiser, stronger person. That's my attitude about it, anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by hoke Can you explain what you mean by "too good?"I mean it like "too good to be true"....the situation is so good & seems so perfect that it doesn't seem like it's even happening Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 It really does depend on the situation for me...I stayed w/ my ex too long and got too involved when I knew that we weren't a forever couple...but at times yes, I do bail out before seeing a "relationship" through. But that's usually b/c I see signs of it not working already...maybe it would have been better, in some situations, to stick things out for a lil longer, but I think I've made mostly good decisions. I have a really good sense of self & whom I like, and if it's not clicking...If, however, you are scared that things are too good to be true, don't give that up...the feeling of complete and utter fear will probably pass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 My left leg is shorter than my right so I cant really run even if I try...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted September 5 Author Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by nycmuzik2000 My left leg is shorter than my right so I cant really run even if I try...... thanks for killing my thread jerk! This was a serious question and i expect only serious responses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by marcid21 thanks for killing my thread jerk! This was a serious question and i expect only serious responses. . . . stop whining, you've done that to me in the past . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by nycmuzik2000 My left leg is shorter than my right so I cant really run even if I try...... You could always run in circles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted September 5 Author Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . . stop whining, you've done that to me in the past . . . get off my dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by marcid21 thanks for killing my thread jerk! This was a serious question and i expect only serious responses. Better to kill your thread than mastrubate and kill a kitten..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by tastyt You could always run in circles. I tried when I was younger but the bully's in school would always trip me..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 I love to run, its such a good release. When I run I just blank out all the problems that i might be having at that time, and everything seems so simple... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoke Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 NEW YORK, New York (CNN) -- Terrorists have struck again, hijacking one of Clubplanet's most meaningful threads this afternoon, our news source reported Wednesday afternoon.This hijacking comes on the heels of a number of disturbing postwhore incidents that fragmented the Clubplanet community and prompted fears of future attacks.Those fears have "now become a reality," spokesperson DaVe said in a press conference late Wednesday.DaVe spoke in a firm tone, stating that he took the hijacking very seriously."We will track down the hijackers and get them wherever they hide," he added.President Bush was not available for comment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 :laugh: ....They're always after me lucky charms...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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