fierydesire Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 . . . Do you find them appealing or nay? For some reason I get drawn to guys who are like that. To me that signals a true gentlemen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 what is "old-fashioned" to you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted September 16 Author Report Share Posted September 16 someone who is polite, courteous . . . well any guy could be like that, but a guy who holds and opens the door for you. The ones who are traditional in some aspects. Basically the ones who know how to treat a woman. But my old-fashioned definition may not be what everyone else interprets it to be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjp22 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by fierydesire someone who is polite, courteous . . . well any guy could be like that, but a guy who holds and opens the door for you. The ones who are traditional in some aspects. Basically the ones who know how to treat a woman. But my old-fashioned definition may not be what everyone else interprets it to be I can't speak for every guy but I try to be all those things and then am I told I am to nice and will be shit on etc. Maybe its just me I dont know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Chivalry is not dead I still open doors for ladies, pull out chairs, drop my coat in a puddle (when need be), let my girl order first when we go out for dinner, always pay for things, and just respect and honor my girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Hmm, well I don't think a guy has to be old-fashioned in order to be a gentleman... IDK about "old-fashioned-ness." IDK if I'd like it. I just want to be treated with respect, but it doesn't have to be because I'm a woman- does that make sense??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by mjp22 I can't speak for every guy but I try to be all those things and then am I told I am to nice and will be shit on etc. Maybe its just me I dont know. with the next woman, be a little jerk-like in the beginning, then you can slowly transform into a nice guy again. women love assholes that turn "nice" (note: this does NOT count for the opposite (nice guy -> jerk)), especially when they think you got more nice cause you got to know her better and like her for the way she is deep inside, and that you are opening your "real self" to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjp22 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by tastey with the next woman, be a little jerk-like in the beginning, then you can slowly transform into a nice guy again. women love assholes that turn "nice" (note: this does NOT count for the opposite (nice guy -> jerk)), especially when they think you got more nice cause you got to know her better and like her for the way she is deep inside, and that you are opening your "real self" to her. Good idea thank you. At this point willing to give just bout anything a shot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by tastyt Hmm, well I don't think a guy has to be old-fashioned in order to be a gentleman... IDK about "old-fashioned-ness." IDK if I'd like it. I just want to be treated with respect, but it doesn't have to be because I'm a woman- does that make sense??? no it doesn't make any sense. Once again you've launched into a verbal tirade without any sense of what you're trying to get at. Your confusing stuttering and inability to convey any form of a coherent point are both tragic and annoying.Have some coffee.:goofy:i hate mondays Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted September 16 Author Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by tastyt Hmm, well I don't think a guy has to be old-fashioned in order to be a gentleman... IDK about "old-fashioned-ness." IDK if I'd like it. I just want to be treated with respect, but it doesn't have to be because I'm a woman- does that make sense??? No i get your point. Respect is key and I think that comes along with old-fashioned-ness that I perceive. I also think that you can be a gentlemen without being old fashioned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by cintron no it doesn't make any sense. Once again you've launched into a verbal tirade without any sense of what you're trying to get at. Your confusing stuttering and inability to convey any form of a coherent point are both tragic and annoying.Have some coffee.:goofy:i hate mondays Ahhh, go stuff a canoli in yer piehole buddy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by tastyt Hmm, well I don't think a guy has to be old-fashioned in order to be a gentleman... IDK about "old-fashioned-ness." IDK if I'd like it. I just want to be treated with respect, but it doesn't have to be because I'm a woman- does that make sense??? yes, makes sense, you don´t want respect because of your T&A but because of who *you* are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by tastyt Ahhh, go stuff a canoli in yer piehole buddy! mmm... canoli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted September 17 Report Share Posted September 17 i originally went out with my ex for the first time because he asked me out in such a polite fashion. it wasn't such a big deal, either; the words he used to ask the question were simply, "can i take you out sometime?" but compared to the shit i usually hear, it was sparkling. (of course, his manner in general added a lot to it, it wasn't just those words.) i wasn't attracted to him at all, and probably wouldn't've given him my number otherwise, but he seemed so nice and respectful, and therefore worth at least spending an evening talking together, even if nothing were to come of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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