ysolt Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 here's the deal...been seeing a guy for almost 6 months...how do i bring up the fact that i want to be 'exclusive' without scaring him off??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doubleplay1970 Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 tell him how you feel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LatinaZee Posted September 22 Report Share Posted September 22 Originally posted by ysolt here's the deal...been seeing a guy for almost 6 months...how do i bring up the fact that i want to be 'exclusive' without scaring him off??? Its hard to say....first find out how he feels about you..then ask if he thinks something could come from just being "yous two". See his reaction on those questions..Im STILL scaring guys off.....maybe I should change deodorants!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ysolt Posted September 22 Author Report Share Posted September 22 thanks for the good advice... and for making me laugh.at least you wear deodorant! i was at platinum yesterday and there was a circle around this guy and i had no idea why... i took a whif and nearly passed out! sometimes deodorant is absolutely necessary.and what's that about? doesn't he smell how bad he smells??? argh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deeelite1 Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 If you dont feel comfortable enough to ask him to be exclusive, or you feel like you are going to scare him, chances are its not right yet.Just my .02 cents.Good luck tho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvle02 Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 If you guys have been "seeing" each other for six months I'm sure you won't scare him off. If he stuck around this long he obviously has feelings for you. You should talk to him ASAP. Good luck!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perns2002 Posted September 23 Report Share Posted September 23 Originally posted by ysolt here's the deal...been seeing a guy for almost 6 months...how do i bring up the fact that i want to be 'exclusive' without scaring him off??? Hey Girl, I was in this situation once, and I asked him right up front if there was anyone else, and I stressed him to tel the truth cuz no one gets hurt if your honest.............. 6 months is a long enough, I would say it is def. safe to ask him...................... Do you guys see each other a lot? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ysolt Posted September 24 Author Report Share Posted September 24 yah. like 2-3 times a week!!! he's a sweetheart, but he's like so into "going out" (like to clubs, etc.) -- who knows who he's meeting etc???!!!thanks everyone for all the advice. i'm new to the market (just got out of a super long relationship--6.5 years) and i dunno what the whole dating scene is about!you guys are the best. we should have a girl's night out, sit and have some coffee and bitch/vent/etc. like my gals on "sex & the city" LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 honesty is definitely your best bet...and if he has a reaction you don't want to hear, then he's not worth it anyway! i hope that, whatever you decide to do, it goes well......let us know! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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