sweetie029 Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Yea so me & my ex broke up maybe about a month ago..or even a little over when we first broke up we spoke rarely maybe once or twice a week...but lately..he has been calling more frequently...mainly when he calls he "says" it's for a botty call...but we've broken up 2 previous times & during our break-ups he has invited me over for "just" sex but when i got there we didn't do anything & it was just his way of getting me to his house to hang out...now..i know the kid is not deperate for sex b/c i know of like 2 girls who basically sweat him & would probably jump at the opportunity (even if they knew it was nothing) & he knows my views on sex with an ex...my ? is (finally!) is he just calling cause he's horny...or is this yet another attempt at saying he misses me without really saying it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 if he calls you over for sex, and you don't have any, but you two hang out and talk on an intellectual level, then I'd think it's because he really likes being around YOU... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 ....you're asking the wrong question about the wrong person......you should be asking yourself, "why do i like going in circles?"......is it time to evolve and grow or would you rather stick around for a while?.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by phatman ....you're asking the wrong question about the wrong person......you should be asking yourself, "why do i like going in circles?"......is it time to evolve and grow or would you rather stick around for a while?.... exactly. move on... someones gotta be the strong one and reliaze you broke up for a reason. allow yourself to find something in someone else, something better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted October 18 Author Report Share Posted October 18 Well...After much contemplating...a moment of clarity has been reached & boy o boy does it feel good!!! I deserve 100000 times better than this guy & I don;t know what the hell took me so long to figure this out...I guess I had it set in my head I would never find any better (which is downright impossible b/c I think HE was the lowest a woman could possibly go) but anyway...I've broken off all ties with him & I thought it was going to be a lot worse than it was....I actually feel so much better & more confident in myself then I think I ever have before Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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