thehacker Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by bkissa:its sooooo much more fun to just be out on the dance floor all by yourself, when it's not crowded and just close your eyes and dance alone. you can actually feel the music. so i am with you!i feel precisely the same way. i dance (translation: flail my arms and legs around in perfect rhythm but not necessarily with any amount of graceful motion) with my eyes closed cuz it makes me feel one with beat, not one with hundreds of shady people who are staring and looking like i'm the weirdest person they've ever seen 'dance'... hehehe... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rad_Z Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 I didnt venture out to a club by myself just yet, but I did go with only 1 other person on many occasions and the experience is basically just like going alone anyways. I usually get to the club, stand in line, and the scope out the place with whoever i go. But after I'm inside for a few minutes, I go off alone to do my thing and my friend does his own shit . SO basically you are free to do whatever you want, whenever you feel like it. I like wondering around, sometimes just chilling, sometimes dancing in this spot, few minutes later in a different spot or room, depeding on the music and the mood that I'm in. WHen I go with a group of ppl, then Im not as free. First you got to watch your friends so you dont loose them, then half of the other time you are trying to find them if you do separate. Finally you need to take into consideration the time that you're friends want to leave the club.Overall, its fun to go with a group of ppl to a small club, but there are the negative constraining aspects of that.Also its basically just as fun being in a club by yourself, cuz of all the freedom that you have, w/o worrying about anyone else.Rad_------------------ BOOM............BOOM!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robocock Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 oh jesus give me a break. it's really fun to be by yourself and everyone is thinking you are either a loser or a psycho. Originally posted by bkissa:its sooooo much more fun to just be out on the dance floor all by yourself, when it's not crowded and just close your eyes and dance alone. you can actually feel the music. so i am with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rad_Z Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 Wow, RObo***,You must be extremely confident and very secure with yourself <scsm> if you care so much about what other ppl (strangers) think about you when you are on the dancefloor.If you go to those upscale places that are all about image, then I can understand your view. But in a regular club like exit or SF, who the hell gives a Damn. Dont concentrate so much on other people's thoughts, because then it takes away from the actual puppose of being in a club...to get away from the stress, everyday problems and just let go and dance.I dont know if i agree totally with Bkissa,but i know that some ppl like different styles of dancing depending on their moods.SOme ppl like dancing alone and having space,others like grinding and having body contact, and others just like dancing in a group.Dont matter how they do it, as long as they are doing it.Rad_------------------ BOOM............BOOM!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 yes i do. sometimes peps just come up to you and start dancing or vice versa... ------------------ ~ * i'm like, hey where that Bacardi at..mix it with the Crisp, baby .. what's wrong with that?! * ~ $tarcapone..e.i. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted July 16 Report Share Posted July 16 i use to out alot by myself but not anymore.. I'm a bit older now and i like to have friends there so i can mingle...------------------~~all those who dance may enter my life~~keeping the groove alive~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubgodezz Posted July 17 Report Share Posted July 17 i wouldnt go by myself im from upstate ny...far drive by yourself but i love to go around and dance by myself!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emilyce Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 Hey I was wondering the same thing...I really want to start clubbing more often; and I can't get any of my friends to come with me ever...because they'd rather go to a bar and drink and sit around.I personally would rather be dancing. Maybe I will go by myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rin981 Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 when i am in a club alot of times i seperate from my friends, but i never actually go by myself. it's scary but i wish i was able to, i would all the time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brodie332 Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 I really want to start clubbing more often; and I can't get any of my friends to come with me ever...because they'd rather go to a bar and drink and sit around.Same problem here. I think after reading everyone's responses, it becomes clear that the two big problems are (1)getting to (and back from the club alone) AND (2)getting strange looks from people on the dancefloor when you r bustin' a move alone. i don't have the answer to no.1 i have the same problem, as i'm sure many others have. the drive is treacherous. but don't let it get to ya....music is the answer...and getting down on the dancefloor is EVERYTHING! no.2 is easy: you're in the wrong club!cheers,brodie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sebastianxy Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 Originally posted by sd:I spent 6 weeks in Singapore around Christmas and New Years on my own. They have a great club scene down there with excellent DJ's. I knew no one and used to go out by myself all the time, I probably had the best 6 weeks of clubbing of my life. I met really cool people whenever I wanted to, danced when I wanted to and heard great DJ's, among them, Carl Cox and Darren Emerson (New Years, the night of newest GU). Since then, if theirs a good DJ spinning I don't hesitate to fly solo.SDJust got back from a few weeks in Singapore and Bangkok, and found the club scene (Zouk, Velvet, Bar One)pretty dull. Great places, great sound systems, bad DJ's, very little new wax...maybe I went at a bad time, maybe you went at during a great time... BUT I did find it easy to go alone and make friends, so that part of it was cool. Less assumption that a guy by himself is a weirdo or loser...[This message has been edited by sebastianxy (edited 07-18-2001).] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10Spectrums Posted July 18 Report Share Posted July 18 anyone up for a meet-up at limelight Friday? or Exit Saturday?------------------ Fridays at LimelightSaturdays at ExitE-mail misticminister@aol.com for more info Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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