lollib Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Ok, so during sex, sometimes my mind may wander into thinking about other things. It is not every time I have sex with my boyfriend and not even for the whole time but sometimes I drift into thought. Does this ever happen to anyone else? Cause he asked me what I was thinking and I told him and it caused major problems. He took it personally like I am not into him but I really am. Anyone??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Like what..............how your ex boyfriend used to do it better, what's gonna be on the next episode of Opra, if you left the iron on.............uh, did I forget my pill?things like that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted November 8 Author Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by ou812 Like what..............how your ex boyfriend used to do it better, what's gonna be on the next episode of Opra, if you left the iron on.............uh, did I forget my pill?things like that? No, definitely not about other people. Stupid stuff pretty much. I cant help it. It also doesnt help that I dont orgasm during sex so he thinks that has something to do with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Ehhhhhhh, if he doesn't do it for you...........then he doesn't do it for you, not too surprising that your mind is wandering if he can't make you go OOOOooOOOoooooOOOooMy mind would probably be too. Making phone calls and shit right in the middle of it."Hi mom.............oh, nothing, so what are you doing?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meli2444 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 IT CAN MEAN ONE OF TWO THINGS:1- THAT YOU HAVE ALOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW. (THIS HAPPENS TO ALOT OF PEOPLE)OR 2- YOUR NOT INTO YOUR MAN. MAYBE YOU NEED TO SPICE IT UP A BIT.HOPE THIS HELPS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted November 8 Author Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by ou812 Ehhhhhhh, if he doesn't do it for you...........then he doesn't do it for you, not too surprising that your mind is wandering if he can't make you go OOOOooOOOoooooOOOooMy mind would probably be too. Making phone calls and shit right in the middle of it."Hi mom.............oh, nothing, so what are you doing?" No, I am into him. I can never orgasm during sex- with anyone. It is frustrating but I do love being with him very much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikkii123 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 This use to happen to me with the "ex" - hence one of the MANY reasons he's now the Ex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosultan Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by lollib No, I am into him. I can never orgasm during sex- with anyone. This means that you simply haven't met the right guy (in this department) yet. Apparently a lot of women experience this problem. Poor souls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by sosultan This means that you simply haven't met the right guy (in this department) yet. Apparently a lot of women experience this problem. Poor souls. Ummm, actually no, that's not what it means. Nice try though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted November 8 Author Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by tastyt Ummm, actually no, that's not what it means. Nice try though. Thank you for saying that! Only a guy would give the response. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by lollib Thank you for saying that! Only a guy would give the response. Tellllll me about it... either that, or something along the lines of "you wouldn't have that problem with me." Uh-huh, never heard that one before... :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 hey...stop that you two...and on this topic...i would say you have unresolved issues...whether it be from abuse, stress, etc...you may have to dig a bit to discover what the problem might be...but if he truly loves you, you two can work together on it...sky's the limit... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by phatman hey...stop that you two...Nah, it's not meant as a man-bashing thing at all... more like ignorance-bashing (or cockiness-bashing, if you will). There are a good number of men who are enlightened and understand that many women were not built to cum from alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Thats why im here Step right up...test your limits."Now thats something a man would say...a manly man." Originally posted by phatman hey...stop that you two...and on this topic...i would say you have unresolved issues...whether it be from abuse, stress, etc...you may have to dig a bit to discover what the problem might be...but if he truly loves you, you two can work together on it...sky's the limit... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by gothzane Thats why im here Step right up...test your limits."Now thats something a man would say...a manly man." See now, that's the spirit! :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irenegade7 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by phatman hey...stop that you two......sky's the limit... Not in this case she's going nowhere. Her flight is delayed, poor girlstuck on the runaway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosultan Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by tastyt Ummm, actually no, that's not what it means. Nice try though. Where to start… I don’t think I was totally off when I said “she hasn’t met the right guy yet”. Correct me if I’m wrong, but (let’s call him ‘the right guy”) the right guy would have taken care of that ‘disorder’. True, it could be the guy she’s with now, but clearly he’s not doing the right job so far. Sounds as if this girl is pretty pessimistic about her ‘orgasm-ic’ outlook, hence I made the comment not to get discouraged and sooner or later things will fall in place.To clear up one more thing, if you can tie my response to “hey, you wouldn’t have that problem with me”, you building your conclusion out of thin air. Nothing in my reply suggests that. I said apparently a lot of women experience that problem because that’s what I discovered in reading literature on the subject. I honestly do think they’re ‘poor souls’ for missing out on good ol’ orgasm. As for “ignorance-bashing or cockiness-bashing”, do me the favor of pointing out ‘ignorance’ or ‘cockiness’ in my response. Sounds like you just needed to take out on someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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