t0nythelover Posted November 21 Report Share Posted November 21 especially when they come from guys. but seriously i just smile and say thank you, but some people get pissed like they expect something from you. whats up with that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted November 21 Report Share Posted November 21 Originally posted by t0nythelover especially when they come from guys. but seriously i just smile and say thank you, but some people get pissed like they expect something from you. whats up with that? by "expecting something from you," do you mean when people compliment you just to get one in return? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t0nythelover Posted November 21 Author Report Share Posted November 21 after a compliment they just stare at you like waiting for something... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dknybabe2929 Posted November 21 Report Share Posted November 21 thats awkward...Just dont pay attention to it, say thanks and smile and go about doing your thing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted November 21 Report Share Posted November 21 Originally posted by t0nythelover after a compliment they just stare at you like waiting for something... sometimes people want to know that you've heard them and believe them, they want you to know that they're not just bullshitting. you giving them a response lets them know that you've accepted the compliment as something valid and not just insincere words.my mom, for instance, gets really frustrated when i blow off her compliments. i generally say that she'll just say she likes things i do because i'm her daughter - that she can't be impartial. this annoys her because she thinks i'm saying that she doesn't have a mind of her own or an opinion that counts. my considering her compliments as coming from fair actual evaluation or feeling shows that i respect her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobross Posted November 22 Report Share Posted November 22 Originally posted by t0nythelover especially when they come from guys. but seriously i just smile and say thank you, but some people get pissed like they expect something from you. whats up with that? i like your hair anthony... its perrty.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted November 22 Report Share Posted November 22 Originally posted by weyes sometimes people want to know that you've heard them and believe them, they want you to know that they're not just bullshitting. you giving them a response lets them know that you've accepted the compliment as something valid and not just insincere words.my mom, for instance, gets really frustrated when i blow off her compliments. i generally say that she'll just say she likes things i do because i'm her daughter - that she can't be impartial. this annoys her because she thinks i'm saying that she doesn't have a mind of her own or an opinion that counts. my considering her compliments as coming from fair actual evaluation or feeling shows that i respect her. that was a very well-written post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted November 22 Report Share Posted November 22 Originally posted by joeg that was a very well-written post. thank you . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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