weyes Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 don't hold people to impossible standards; no one's perfect, and it makes for a tense relationship .tune in tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 I'm guilty of having done that. What was I thinking? I much more laid back now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by mala I'm guilty of having done that. What was I thinking? I much more laid back now. ]HOw does one get more laid back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted January 10 Author Report Share Posted January 10 Originally posted by gmccookny HOw does one get more laid back for me, it was something that just came, over time. it was me accepting that my friend christy will always be late, and that it's nothing personal - she just can't get anywhere on time. and i accept that my stepmother will never like any birthday present i give her - even if it's something she's specifically asked for - because she chooses to be unhappy and insulted most of the time.once i accepted some truths in life, as opposed to resisting and being upset that things aren't the way i want, i really started to feel more laid-back and happy . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by gmccookny ]HOw does one get more laid back i had a few friends that went to live in CA, and when they came back they were much more laid back, they even talked alittle slower(calmer)maybe the nicer weater gets you more laid back:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted January 11 Author Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by incredulous i had a few friends that went to live in CA, and when they came back they were much more laid back, they even talked alittle slower(calmer)maybe the nicer weater gets you more laid back:confused: i talk more slowly than i used to, too!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by weyes i talk more slowly than i used to, too!!! did you grow up there, or moved? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted January 12 Author Report Share Posted January 12 Originally posted by incredulous did you grow up there, or moved? i'm from new york city, went to college in the suburbs of l.a. after graduation i moved home to nyc for 2 years, couldn't stand it, and moved back out west. i now live here in the city of l.a. itself, and am very happy . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 la is better then nyc??? please explain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted January 13 Author Report Share Posted January 13 Originally posted by incredulous la is better then nyc??? please explain i'd really rather not; that debate comes up on this forum every couple of months and just gets nowhere and ugly, two things i don't much care for .i'll just leave it at: l.a. is a better fit, for me . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 its just different, east coast to west coast. not that one is necesarily better than the other, depends on what you like. definitly a move to the west coast is in my future if nothing extraordinary happens in the next year or so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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