sweetie029 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 So I was told that I'm "EMOTIONALLY SHALLOW" & when it comes to relationships I act like a man .....I always thought I kept a balance of opening up & guarding myself.....I never knew there was a "girl" or "guy" way to act when dealing with your feelings....All have to say about this bullshit comment is.....Sorry....Just venting a little Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 I wish I could act more like a guy when it comes to relationships Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 I've been referred to as a girl in the way I handle certain things, often in relationships. Sorry if I'm trying to be so damn considerate of the girl I'm going out with, or if at times, I let things get to me and become a little emotional...(damn it's tough being a Libra)I'm with you, for all those people, :bigfinge: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by sweetie029 So I was told that I'm "EMOTIONALLY SHALLOW" & when it comes to relationships I act like a man .....I always thought I kept a balance of opening up & guarding myself.....I never knew there was a "girl" or "guy" way to act when dealing with your feelings....All have to say about this bullshit comment is.....Sorry....Just venting a little <~~~100% act like a guy in a relationship....its not a bad thing...be who you are even if it doesnt conform to the traditional gender-behavior stereotype Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 I wish I could act more like a guy when it comes to relationships seriously...I always seem to get hurt a lot more than the boys.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted January 17 Author Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by trueqwest damn it's tough being a Libra)I'm with you, for all those people, :bigfinge: Apparently Libra's are cursed b/c I'm one too....My whole concept of KEEPING BALANCE doesn't seem to work Here I am thinking I'm doing the right thing by giving this guy space...letting him do his thing & he wants a girl who's going to be on his ass 24/7...He wants a girl whos going to sweat him all the time..Well he came to the wrong place looking for that bullshit There should be an equal amount of affection & space...It's just a shame this person isn't worth either one & surely isn't worth any attention at all....Someone PLEASE smack me for wasting 2 years of my life LoL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by sweetie029 Apparently Libra's are cursed b/c I'm one too....My whole concept of KEEPING BALANCE doesn't seem to work Here I am thinking I'm doing the right thing by giving this guy space...letting him do his thing & he wants a girl who's going to be on his ass 24/7...He wants a girl whos going to sweat him all the time..Well he came to the wrong place looking for that bullshit There should be an equal amount of affection & space...It's just a shame this person isn't worth either one & surely isn't worth any attention at all....Someone PLEASE smack me for wasting 2 years of my life LoL Sorry to hear that, luckily my bf took less than 2yrs to realize that. In the beginning he didn't understand the concept of personal space.Are you sure it's been a complete waste? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 what is "acting like a guy" in a relationship... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snarfgirl22 Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by sweetie029 So I was told that I'm "EMOTIONALLY SHALLOW" & when it comes to relationships I act like a man .....I always thought I kept a balance of opening up & guarding myself.....I never knew there was a "girl" or "guy" way to act when dealing with your feelings....All have to say about this bullshit comment is..... whoa guys must all use that or something i remember some guy told me that once i was seriously offended but then i though hey fuck it i like the way i am...if you are too emotional you're a big sensitive woman and if you back off and keep to yourself you're "emotionally unstable" as it was put to me...righto...i dunno if i'll ever get it right but someone will eventually appreciate my way about things...poop on them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by sassa what is "acting like a guy" in a relationship... Not caring as much or showing feeling:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by sassa what is "acting like a guy" in a relationship... well ive been told i act like a guy becausei dont like to cuddlei would rather go home right after sex instead of spending the nitei can count the times ive cried with one hand, hai'm emotionally detachedim horny all the timei'm not into cheesey romantic stuffi cant remember the dates of events for shit (ex birthdays, when we started dating, etc)the list goes on forever but i think u get the point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by nympho69 well ive been told i act like a guy becausei dont like to cuddlei would rather go home right after sex instead of spending the nitei can count the times ive cried with one hand, hai'm emotionally detachedim horny all the timei'm not into cheesey romantic stuffi cant remember the dates of events for shit (ex birthdays, when we started dating, etc)the list goes on forever but i think u get the point I would have to say that this is all the criteria to "act like a guy" in a relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 I would have to say that this is all the criteria to "act like a guy" in a relationship yes and somehow i end up with the men who act like womeni fucking hate it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by nympho69 well ive been told i act like a guy becausei dont like to cuddlei would rather go home right after sex instead of spending the nitei can count the times ive cried with one hand, hai'm emotionally detachedim horny all the timei'm not into cheesey romantic stuffi cant remember the dates of events for shit (ex birthdays, when we started dating, etc)the list goes on forever but i think u get the point Oh, man...you sound just like this girl I used to see named Gina, from Bergen County, NJ. She was a little bit older than me; we weren't going out, but we were a couple. (If you get what I mean). You remind me so much of her I just got shivers and flashbacks...Please tell me your name isn't Gina and that you don't drive a 94 Camaro Z-28. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by trueqwest Oh, man...you sound just like this girl I used to see named Gina, from Bergen County, NJ. She was a little bit older than me; we weren't going out, but we were a couple. (If you get what I mean). You remind me so much of her I just got shivers and flashbacks...Please tell me your name isn't Gina and that you don't drive a 94 Camaro Z-28. nope im not ginabut im close to bergen countymaybe she's my cousin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Oh, thank God...I think I aged another 10 years, which would put me pretty damn close to 40...which county are you in? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 Not caring as much or showing feeling:tongue: not all guys are like this...some show too much, too soon....kind of makes you feel smothered and that i think is as bad, if not worse than not showing any feelings... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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