starcapone Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 For those that are in relationships, does this ever float in the back of your head... Is my partner solely with me? Can I trust him/her? I personally have a hard time trusting men-women. In reality your not with the person 24-7 so you really don't know what they're doing, you're just hoping the right thing. How can you tell if he/she is lying or cheating?Food for thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unclefester401 Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by starcapone .How can you tell if he/she is lying or cheating? It's easier than you think, just ask. They're either going to tell you yes or no. Obviously if they are, then chances are they're going to lie, but if you catch them off guard it's easier to tell BS from the truth. But if you have a complex and think all your signifigant others are cheating on you, then you shouldn't ask, you should get some help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 If you can't trust people, you can't build a worthwile relationship.I look at it as a give-and-take thing. I've been burned in the past, so im careful about how much trust i give out, and i read the signs. Like, if things seem shady, or that person is hiding more than sharing, I'm gonna hold back and protect myself. But if they're open and share themselves with you, then it should be fine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by unclefester401 It's easier than you think, just ask. They're either going to tell you yes or no. Obviously if they are, then chances are they're going to lie, but if you catch them off guard it's easier to tell BS from the truth. But if you have a complex and think all your signifigant others are cheating on you, then you shouldn't ask, you should get some help. If you catch them off guard, it is easier to tell if they are lying, but you really cant do anything about it unless you know for sure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browneyedqt Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 I don't trust anyone in a relationship...I know it drives my boyfriend crazy, but that's just the way I am I guess. Guys are all shady no matter how good they may seem.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by browneyedqt I don't trust anyone in a relationship...I know it drives my boyfriend crazy, but that's just the way I am I guess. Guys are all shady no matter how good they may seem.... Amen to that, sista! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browneyedqt Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 Amen to that, sista! I knew you'd feel me on that:aright: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by browneyedqt I knew you'd feel me on that:aright: What tipped you off? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browneyedqt Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 What tipped you off? Just a hunch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 hey....u two bestfriends4eva!!...ever heard of aim!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by ghhhhhost hey....u two bestfriends4eva!!...ever heard of aim!? aim:confused: whats that:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browneyedqt Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by ghhhhhost hey....u two bestfriends4eva!!...ever heard of aim! Yes we have heard of Im but I don't get to look at my cute disco ball girl or her little booty shaker girl on IM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by browneyedqt Yes we have heard of Im but I don't get to look at my cute disco ball girl or her little booty shaker girl on IM :D :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
browneyedqt Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 Originally posted by psychosweetie9 :D :D :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted January 18 Report Share Posted January 18 i used to have serious issues trusting my bf's in past relationships... couldnt ever find someone failthful or truthful about how he felt about me.... but now... i have no worries. i mean yea in the back of my mind theres always gonna be that lil insecurity but its different this time. i found myself a MAN... no more childish BOYS who like to play games, cheat and constantly make me wonder.... and for once... im truly happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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