sassa Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 ????????????????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by sassa ????????????????? like all the time the good ones are always taken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 yes, twice oddly... Sort of a wikked deal on my part... Before I go rambling on, these feelings if you had to rate them for this person... on a emotional intensity range of 1-20...what would you say you feel? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 or where you just bringing up a random topic...as oppose to me assuming you feel this way? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 22 Author Report Share Posted January 22 well, i am not that far gone yet, but it does suck for me in a way:i met this guy a while ago, at the time i was with someone and we stayed friends. he now is with someone and ........damn, i kick myself sometimes for not going ahead and seeing what might have happened..and now when i see him...it sort of hurts.but since i'm not one to let my emotions completely take over, i am not suffering from it. but it does make me sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Ok, you know when people say they know EXActly what your talking about... I shit you not I do. I mean not exaggerating at all, Id have to say that when I let my emotions get mixed with my freakin curse of thinking to much etc... that 2 month or so period allowed me to learn soooo much more about myself... Hmm, reading that top part back I dont believe I make any sense... If I could say one thing that would stick.. Regrets, for example... you know the saying..live regret free...blah blah... Thats kind of hard, I mean everyone makes mistakes in the general aspect of daily life decisions etc..BUT...one thing you should never ever regret, are matters of the heart... I mean i tried, not allowing my heart to take over my mind per sae, but dude, it will eat you alive in time. Its hard for me to summarize this story of what exactly went on, but in a nutshell.. ONe day, I had a hint of her feelings...I really didnt feel anything back, than bam,mac truck, and gave her a hint of mine.. a few thousand hints later we were both realizing the perfect most beautiful mate of which we always longed to find was indeed each other, But of course, she was involved...and she was whacked... and it went horrible....BUt.... I would do it allll over again...ok..no mas rambling...ill take a safety break here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 If I could be less confusing... Did you think about telling him how you felt cautiously, without rocking any boats with his relationship? food for thought Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 22 Author Report Share Posted January 22 i can't...the girl he's with wants to get engaged by the end of May....i'm not sure exactly how he feels about it, but...........i hate being in positions like this...makes things more blurry and confusing.the heart is a dangerous thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by sassa i can't...the girl he's with wants to get engaged by the end of May....i'm not sure exactly how he feels about it, but...........i hate being in positions like this...makes things more blurry and confusing.the heart is a dangerous thing. That sucks she wants to get engaged But keep in mind... you should Always take a chance....Even if it doesn't work out @ least you know you tried....It might make things more confusing for him..but this is how you feel & you should act on that best fitToo many times I've dealt with "what if?"...& that's the kind of stuff that will eat away @ you for a loooong time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Originally posted by sassa i can't...the girl he's with wants to get engaged by the end of May....i'm not sure exactly how he feels about it, but...........i hate being in positions like this...makes things more blurry and confusing.the heart is a dangerous thing. I hate this, I have like four thousand things zipping through my mind right now that if I actually wrote it all down you soo would understand what Im thinking...and the relavence to this..but I do not have that much typing space...hmm One thing with the heart Ive learned with that past chica... When it comes to love..you should be a little selfish with how you feel..becuase we are talking about a very powerful emotion here.. As far as you not sure what he is thing...dude..that right there will be the MAin thing that drives you up the wall..I mean I made sure I did not have one question un-asked or one feeling not expressed ... Granted...I sincerely reached a whole new level of sad, I mean not depressed to suicidal..no nol.I mean I just realized sooo many things..that it made me feel sooo much better that I spoke my mind when I did...you know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 exactly sweetie... and sassa...do you say those what if's? too\What I did was changed it...from what if's to fuck it'sEvery time I was thinking about something that seemed even slightly risky to say..I said..Fuck it...no holds barits fun...and lets say worst case scenario...he goes astray.....dont worry..give me his address...he will reconsider... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 23 Author Report Share Posted January 23 i understand what you're saying, but at the same time, i don't want to put myself in a position where i'm the one getting burnt. feelings...are more powerful and vicious that most people think, they can make you go mad.well, thanks for the comments, but i'm pretty sure at this point nothing will come out of it.cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted January 23 Report Share Posted January 23 yes I have found someone taken to be attractiveno, I never caught feelingsFor me it would take a serious relationship for me to develop any type of feelings for someoneI am def not the type who believes in love at first sightor even love after a few weeksits just my personality but I dont even "like" someone unless I've known them for awhile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted January 23 Report Share Posted January 23 hes probvably an asshole anyway. you cant think hes anything special because you cant have him... forget about him, theres millions of fish in the sea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 23 Author Report Share Posted January 23 Originally posted by nympho69 yes I have found someone taken to be attractiveno, I never caught feelingsFor me it would take a serious relationship for me to develop any type of feelings for someoneI am def not the type who believes in love at first sightor even love after a few weeksits just my personality but I dont even "like" someone unless I've known them for awhile i would agree with this because i am like this too, it isn't love, it's knowing someone is so awesome that it could work out.and somebitch, right on.. and i agree. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted January 23 Report Share Posted January 23 Personally, I have never had feelings for someone that was attach, but plenty of my friends have, and it has never turned out good. Its a bad situation and the "other" is always the one who ends up getting hurt really bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted January 24 Report Share Posted January 24 I would have to agree with 98% of what you insightful ladies speak of concerning this particular thread. Pyscho, somebitch, sassa and nympho. But ladies, think of it in this perspective. Sassa, as far as the burnt thing... If it indeed is just a person you see as a "maybe", that you really arent that close too, then you really shouldn't rock the boat. But, lets say its someone you consider to be more significant... Well Im not sure exactly of the position that your in so I wont be pushy with advice, but my preference.. I rather be burnt then clueless of what could of happened... Depends of course on your set up, but which ever the case, good luck... p.s. the other chica is right, by the way... plent of fish in the sea... :jar: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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