sassa Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 anyone ever feel like they're being chained to a huge ball of metal when they enter a relationship? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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nSyNcBaBy Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 im sure many people have... but IMO- if u enter a relationship like that, then u probably shouldnt be in one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 haha. yeah. i dont know how i get involved in relationships, im always just looking to party & some how i end up in them against my desire to be single. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 I have a question for the class, I agree relationships have the ups and downs of such, as well as being single...is there really a median of the two? I mean a friend with benifits, that shares emotions as well...or maybe a booty call who is sweet enough to invite to have dinner with the family.. Or maybe I should just get one of those freakin mail order brides.....ooh.... luv me....many times over... Any clues? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by eccentricmofo I have a question for the class, I agree relationships have the ups and downs of such, as well as being single...is there really a median of the two? doesnt seem that way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 well Ive given up a bit on trying to understand love anymore.. Havent given up on love itself, just trying to gauge it and semi-predict it.... nada mas aqi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 17 Author Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by somebitch haha. yeah. i dont know how i get involved in relationships, im always just looking to party & some how i end up in them against my desire to be single. this is my thing. i guess i am in a relationship now, and i am always trying to avoid them for some reason. i prefer to be alone and be able to check out the scene or not have to worry about a boyfriend dangling from my back...not that i don't like the guy, he's amazing....but at the same time, this happens to me rarely,so it's not about the guy, it's more about the mentality i guess....can't seem to shake off this feeling that i have a weight on my chest now. i like the feeling of being chased after, admired,adored,and loved....but at the same time, i see it as something that i can get out of at any time...and go back to my old single life. am i just weird, or does anyone else experience this.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by sassa anyone ever feel like they're being chained to a huge ball of metal when they enter a relationship? if you feel that way you should get out of the relaqtionship as soon as possible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 17 Author Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by gabo if you feel that way you should get out of the relaqtionship as soon as possible that's just it. i feel this way with every possible relationship that comes up, i think i just like being single too much.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 do u ever give urself enough time to be IN a relationship to find out if u actually like to be in one?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by sassa can't seem to shake off this feeling that i have a weight on my chest now. i like the feeling of being chased after, admired,adored,and loved....but at the same time, i see it as something that i can get out of at any time...and go back to my old single life. am i just weird, or does anyone else experience this.... i dunno but dont put all ur eggs in one basket. just sucks when you want to date and they want a relationship because with relationships come expectations & everything gets fucked up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 17 Author Report Share Posted February 17 lina: how long is the required period to be in a relationship...my longest was 3 months, shortest...one week somebitch............................that's what i want to do, just date for a while, not have to classify the relationship as one that's serious or not or whatever....but i don't know, i think i am more of a guy in this aspect, the guys i meet want to be with me, but i am sort of trying to still keep myself open for other prospects...maybe i'm just a big player Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by sassa lina: how long is the required period to be in a relationship...my longest was 3 months, shortest...one week somebitch............................that's what i want to do, just date for a while, not have to classify the relationship as one that's serious or not or whatever....but i don't know, i think i am more of a guy in this aspect, the guys i meet want to be with me, but i am sort of trying to still keep myself open for other prospects...maybe i'm just a big player idk hun..... no required time period... i guess long enough to see if ur feelings change? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by sassa anyone ever feel like they're being chained to a huge ball of metal when they enter a relationship? actually that sounds like fun...for real though, I def agreebut I dont get into a relationship without dating for months and even after that it depends on how strongly I feel for the person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 17 Author Report Share Posted February 17 i agree with you, nympho...my thing is, that i want to get to know the person as much as possible,so that i can avoid any bullshit or petty crap that might come up in the future, and know how to deal with it. this guy i'm with now is different though...he is very real,and we fight a lot but always seem to make up somehow...but i don't know...btw, when are you coming to see me.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 17 Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by sassa i agree with you, nympho...my thing is, that i want to get to know the person as much as possible,so that i can avoid any bullshit or petty crap that might come up in the future, and know how to deal with it. this guy i'm with now is different though...he is very real,and we fight a lot but always seem to make up somehow...but i don't know...btw, when are you coming to see me.... what do u two fight about?some fights are no good thoughwell i was thinking of stopping by before going to vegas in marchbut of course i havent bought my plane ticket yet, and so the price is going to kill mebut who knows???actually i might go to vegas for memorial weekend as well and then head to cali for a week Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 17 Author Report Share Posted February 17 Originally posted by nympho69 what do u two fight about?some fights are no good thoughwell i was thinking of stopping by before going to vegas in marchbut of course i havent bought my plane ticket yet, and so the price is going to kill mebut who knows???actually i might go to vegas for memorial weekend as well and then head to cali for a week ok, sounds good fight about stupid shit, he's very jealous. most of my friends are guys, and two of them called this weekend, he got pissed off about that, one fight was about me seeing a friend of a friend as a favor, who just happened to be a guy. stupid ish. i don't like jealous people. trying to make him get past it...but i dunno, i'm kind of flattered by it too, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
numoments Posted February 18 Report Share Posted February 18 I agree. Although it's inmoral to sAy, cheating it's never out of the question while having someone near.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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