dgmodel Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 this thought occured to me earlier this evening, and had me thinking for a little bit... we all have come across those situations or ppl who constantly need to be loved or feel loved or accepted or else they feel like ish or feel they worth nothing... now lets take a look at the converse of that situation... what about the ppl who constantly need to love someone in order to feel good or worth something??? isnt that just as odd??? what does that stem from? we all believe (or i should say at least i do) that ppl who feel the need to constantly be in relationships or be loved didnt recieve enough attention when they were younger either socially or more importantly domestically... and therefore seek the comfort, warmth and love of others... but how do you explain the flipside??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by dgmodel this thought occured to me earlier this evening, and had me thinking for a little bit... we all have come across those situations or ppl who constantly need to be loved or feel loved or accepted or else they feel like ish or feel they worth nothing... now lets take a look at the converse of that situation... what about the ppl who constantly need to love someone in order to feel good or worth something??? isnt that just as odd??? what does that stem from? we all believe (or i should say at least i do) that ppl who feel the need to constantly be in relationships or be loved didnt recieve enough attention when they were younger either socially or more importantly domestically... and therefore seek the comfort, warmth and love of others... but how do you explain the flipside??? perhaps these are the people who want to feel their lives have a purpose and enjoy the feeling of making others happywell at least thats how my best friend isi cant say thats how all people are who need to love someone.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 u mean like people who cant live without having a significant other? people who have no clue what a platonic relationship is?its weird..i run into a lot of people like that..people who just cant be alone ..they run from one relationship to another...they suffer on major holidays if theyre alone..they consider themselves worthless cause they "HAVE NO ONE"....i think its a buncha bullshit...single or involved..doesnt matter to me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by ghhhhhost u mean like people who cant live without having a significant other? people who have no clue what a platonic relationship is?its weird..i run into a lot of people like that..people who just cant be alone ..they run from one relationship to another...they suffer on major holidays if theyre alone..they consider themselves worthless cause they "HAVE NO ONE"....i think its a buncha bullshit...single or involved..doesnt matter to me... yeaps..... but since i am alone, i have no choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted February 25 Author Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by atomicapples yeaps..... but since i am alone, i have no choice. whoa... if that didnt go over your head than i have no idea what youre speaking about... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by ghhhhhost u mean like people who cant live without having a significant other? people who have no clue what a platonic relationship is?its weird..i run into a lot of people like that..people who just cant be alone ..they run from one relationship to another...they suffer on major holidays if theyre alone..they consider themselves worthless cause they "HAVE NO ONE"....i think its a buncha bullshit...single or involved..doesnt matter to me... u know whats ironic about thatwhen i meet someone who is like thatwell they appear needy and too emotional for meso that turns me off and scares me awayand i bet that happens to most of the people they meetbasically that extreme need might be the reason they are alonedo they see that??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by dgmodel whoa... if that didnt go over your head than i have no idea what youre speaking about... what do you mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted February 25 Author Report Share Posted February 25 Originally posted by nympho69 u know whats ironic about thatwhen i meet someone who is like thatwell they appear needy and too emotional for meso that turns me off and scares me awayand i bet that happens to most of the people they meetbasically that extreme need might be the reason they are alonedo they see that??? agreed... its tremendous turnoff, and more importantly makes me feel that, that person is too emotionally unstable to have a "normal" relationship... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted February 25 Report Share Posted February 25 im am very non co-deprendant and currently owe 17 cats whom love me very very much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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