whats the difference??

[nympho69]

Sometimes I feel being realistic about certain things, I am actually being pessimistic. Like taking on a difficult task, or realizing it might be too difficult and the effort is a waste of time. But not taking it on, I feel I am giving up and underestimating myself.

I guess the question is, how do you know when you should give up or should continue trying???

[entheogen808]

not to be all "go team", but you should never give up.

don't know exactly what you're talking about, but if it means that much to you don't give up...unless we're talking about stalking.

[somebitch]

i dunno, you cant be right 100% of the time... sometimes you gotta go wiht your gut & never look back.

[petp]

depends on what youre talking about...if its something you have some control over the outcome of then you shouldnt give up. but if its something like having someone like you, then u really dont have much control over that, so take your losses and walk away.