fierydesire Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Do you think that its cool if a girl picks a guy up or do you like it the traditional way and you walk up to the girl and talk to her?I ask this because I met a guy on friday and well he was blatently looking at me. He was a cutie so I went up to him and said "hey how are you, I see you checkin me out." He was kind of shocked, then I was like "hey come sit with me and my girlfriends" I have a very forward personality and I go after what I want;) Do you think this intimidates guys or guys should be secure enough to accept it and think its cool if a chick makes the initiative? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Guys love it... Ask any guy how he met his girl, and if she happened to be the one who initiated contact, you'll see a big proud grin cross his face when he tells you "*she* picked *me* up!"BTW, that's how I met my baby... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 so it isnt so bad, guys like it I've noticed that I pick up guys cause I hate bullshit games and waiting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 i wish i could be more out going... i think it is great if you can just go up to people & i dont think it is a turn off at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 ...just like anything else, it depends on how it's done and who it is...either way...female aggressiveness can be refreshing so long as it isnt accompanied with over-bearing and rudeness (which does sometimes occur)... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by fierydesire Do you think that its cool if a girl picks a guy up or do you like it the traditional way and you walk up to the girl and talk to her? its quite refreshing... not to sound like a cheeseball or conceded however most girls, ive met or meet come up to me, i hardly ever approach women in bars/clubs... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by phatman ...just like anything else, it depends on how it's done and who it is...either way...female aggressiveness can be refreshing so long as it isnt accompanied with over-bearing and rudeness (which does sometimes occur)... i know a girl who is so uncouth & she always goes up to people. it sux when i am out with her because i just wanna hide sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by dgmodel its quite refreshing... not to sound like a cheeseball or conceded however most girls, ive met or meet come up to me, i hardly ever approach women in bars/clubs... oh that is cause your fabolous;)Nah I don't think Im overbearing because I only go after it if I feel a vibe from that person. I won't jump down his throat and be like your my bitch get the fuck over here:laugh: Kara - I don't think that its right to approach every guy or gal for that matter, I mean it is sometimes unwanted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by fierydesire oh that is cause your fabolous;)Nah I don't think Im overbearing because I only go after it if I feel a vibe from that person. I won't jump down his throat and be like your my bitch get the fuck over here:laugh: Kara - I don't think that its right to approach every guy or gal for that matter, I mean it is sometimes unwanted yeah but this girl i know doesnt know whether it is unwanted or wanted. she also doesnt know when to stop, like cant take a hint. it is kinda comical but also embarrassing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by fierydesire Nah I don't think Im overbearing because I only go after it if I feel a vibe from that person. I won't jump down his throat and be like your my bitch get the fuck over here:laugh: ....overbearing usually reveals itself later on...but rudeness is usually almost immediate...neither of which i doubt you maintain...marko - it's conceit and you're full of it - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by fierydesire Kara - I don't think that its right to approach every guy or gal for that matter, I mean it is sometimes unwanted yes, just like not every girl that's sitting alone in a club or bar wants to be talked to, or talked to by YOU, not every guy does either. it's happened to me and i find it complimentary, however, it only happens when i'm taken. it's like girls have that radar. it's a cruel world sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by fierydesire oh that is cause your fabolous;) lol... highly doubt thats the reason... prolly just tired of me staring at them and not doing anything about it... or prolly just want the free drink and a laugh... im usually good for both... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by fierydesire I mean it is sometimes unwanted thats exactly why i do not approach most girls/ladies/women in bars, clubs etc... i never know if theyre out ladies night or out for dicks or whatever... so i feel guilty coming over, wasting their time and mine, interrupting whatever story is being told at the moment... blah you know the routine... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 The good thing about it, b/c guys don't get approached as often as women do, they're unlikely to be rude if they're not interested.But I hear that some women get really snotty when rejected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 not as bad as men though... holy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 I've never just went up to a guy out of nowhere & started talking.....& I've rarely went up to someone I was vibing w/......But on some occasions if I make eye contact with a guy continuously & I'm feeling confident I'll walk over & strike up conversation......I only do that once in a blue.....For the most part I'm too shy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by dgmodel not as bad as men though... holy! Good point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
househead24 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 I love it when girls come up to me, I wish more girls were like that and just say f*ck it and come up to you, ya know. Shows they got some balls, why are the men the ones who always have to do it, let the women do it for a change see if they can handle it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by entheogen808 it's happened to me and i find it complimentary, however, it only happens when i'm taken. it's like girls have that radar. it's a cruel world sometimes. this is so true it happens to females to. I realize when I'm taken I get more men coming up to me its like what do you smell the other cock or some shit. No but seriously, I think it has to be the fact that you give off some aura of confidence or the vibe that you are not looking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by dgmodel lol... highly doubt thats the reason... prolly just tired of me staring at them and not doing anything about it... or prolly just want the free drink and a laugh... im usually good for both... ha ha so dont stare work it biatch:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 i cant... i have about as much game as the special olympics... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 no one has less game than yours truly.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by ghhhhhost no one has less game than yours truly.. this is true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drmoxx Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by dgmodel thats exactly why i do not approach most girls/ladies/women in bars, clubs etc... i never know if theyre out ladies night or out for dicks or whatever... so i feel guilty coming over, wasting their time and mine, interrupting whatever story is being told at the moment... blah you know the routine... i'm the same waymost of the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
njdionysus Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by fierydesire Do you think that its cool if a girl picks a guy up or do you like it the traditional way and you walk up to the girl and talk to her?I ask this because I met a guy on friday and well he was blatently looking at me. He was a cutie so I went up to him and said "hey how are you, I see you checkin me out." He was kind of shocked, then I was like "hey come sit with me and my girlfriends" I have a very forward personality and I go after what I want;) Do you think this intimidates guys or guys should be secure enough to accept it and think its cool if a chick makes the initiative? thats what I like to hearif you want something, you have to go for it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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