Guest gabo Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Everyone that you're with will say that you are good but how can you really tell? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlipsSOE Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 i think its like with almost anything. you get better results according to the effort you put in. the harder you work, and the more you put forth that certain drive, the more satisfied your partner is going to be. i know there have been times when i have been so tired or drunk, and i think back. wow that must've really sucked for her, i did squat. other times, when i'm feeling good, energetic and giving it my all, that i say, yes, shes definitely pleased. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by gabo Everyone that you're with will say that you are good but how can you really tell? you just know... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 the presence or believability ( ) of orgasms is a good measure! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by dgmodel you just know... ditto! I know I suck at Basketball, and I know I suck at billiards. So if you think you suck at it (like most other things), than you probably do. I on the other hand am a champ at booty baking and fly fishing, because I simply know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 when a non smoker demands a cigarette afterwards.i think it's like what everyone else has said...you just know.it also helps when your partner begs/demands that you fuck him/her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by weyes the presence or believability ( ) of orgasms is a good measure! but you cant always go by that... I have been with women who came from me rubbing their leg. they were just that sensitive Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eccentricmofo Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 Not really sure how I would rate myself according to a woman's opinion after I did the deed. Most of the time they are rendered speechless and in awe.... then there is a following period of time that most spent a couple days in a coma due to the shock. And then again there was this other time I was hospitalized. This petite thing of a gal orgasmed sooo violently that she snapped my neck with the cringing of her thighs. Even the other girl that was present received a secondary indirect orgasm that very same time. (to educate the clueless, this indirect orgasm was cuase just from being in the same room of the neckbreaker chic.. Ok...and then I woke up..... (I suppose only the received could speak of such, concerning me... ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessie739 Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 When its said at a certain way...you just know. And when its said how you wouldnt expect it to be said "just becuase" you are with that person.......and its said with feeling...and passion.....and when its said when it doesnt have to be.When you feel that connection....spark......sexual energy...YOU KNOW! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 uh...yeah... going back to sex ed: when you're with a woman, you might want to note vaginal secretions... the amount in most cases indicates how aroused your partner is. it's pretty obvious when a guy isn't particularly physically aroused, too...as for more subtle cues:you can also look out for changes in breathing patterns and skin tone (blushing = upped blood pressure = something than happens during arousal... there's a certain point as i'm heading towards orgasm when i get really flushed), quivering/spasming of your partner's leg muscles (i've noticed this in myself and others) when something feels really good...also, people's tastes/smells change as they become more aroused. it's hard to explain, though, if you haven't picked up on it already. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 it's to neither person's advantage to tell someone s/he's good in bed when she's not. the person will be think "oh, i'm hot shit... i should keep up the good work!" and continue to leave his or her partner unpleased.gentle guidance and suggestion is a pleasant and relatively easy way of teaching someone how to be a good lover. you just have to be sensitive. for example, saying "mmm...you know, i love it when you bite my nipple!" is a much more effective and useful way of encouraging your lover than saying "for goodness's sake, can you stop doing that and bite my nipple instead?!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessie739 Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 You better be un freakin believable in bed or your talk means NOTHING.....lol IM JUST PLAYING Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 was that in response to me or to the topic in general?*scratches head* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessie739 Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 Originally posted by wideskies was that in response to me or to the topic in general?*scratches head* YOU! TeeheeWhos eyes are those???? AWESOME! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 at this point I dont care if i am good, I just want some sitting on my face damnit! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 Originally posted by gabo at this point I dont care if i am good, I just want some sitting on my face damnit! i don't know how , but gabo saying that always makes me laugh ! why does that always entertain me so ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 Originally posted by weyes i don't know how , but gabo saying that always makes me laugh ! why does that always entertain me so ? don't worry, its normal to laugh at gabo... all the girls do....although... they usually laugh AFTER he takes his pants off... (lol, just kidd'in petey)[can you tell its 5:30am and i'm bored as fuck??? lol...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 Originally posted by dgmodel you just know... :laugh: I knew someone was going to say this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 Originally posted by joeg don't worry, its normal to laugh at gabo... all the girls do....although... they usually laugh AFTER he takes his pants off... (lol, just kidd'in petey)[can you tell its 5:30am and i'm bored as fuck??? lol...) I have to stop taking off my pants in daylight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted April 11 Report Share Posted April 11 I guess you really can' tell. It's just a leap of faith.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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