guest00901 Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Ok,So I recently bumped into a guy that I knew back in my freshman year. He was friends with my X who I dated in high school who lived in my neighborhood and they are in the same band together. My X from my freshman year and I are still good friends.Ok anyway, so this guy was always picking my X up from school to go to rehearsal cause he was a year older and I was always in love with him. I would like go make an excuse to talk to my X or walk past there to see him or to say hi to him. He looks EXACTLY LIKE Paul Walker he's AMAZING! So I bumped into him at coney island a few weeks ago, turns out he's a lifeguard there. He hasn't seen me in about four years and he's like wow ur looking good blah blah. So we exchanged #'s and talked everyday.He came out to Webster hall this Thursday to see me dance and hung out for a while and ended up taking me home. We ended up hooking up, mind u this is a kid I had a crush on back in the day, he wouldn't give me the day of day then and now is all over me. Ok so we talk the next day and like I dunno Im not really feeling him that much n e more since I hooked up with him.I dunno maybe it's because I tried so hard for so long to have him like me and now that I have him wrapped around my finger and I got what I wanted I jus don't want him n e more. It's weird, he's a nice guy, he's really hot and he likes me but now that I have him I don't want him but this has been happening a lot lately as well. Guys that really start liking me a lot jus kinda makes me turn away, I guess I need the challenge...but why...It would make my life so much easier if like I could actually just like one guy and stick with it, my feelings always fluctuate. ::sigh:: Im rambling lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Oy vey I thought I was the only one with that problem...!!! I think it's because we like the challenge... that's the only way I can think of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted June 21 Author Report Share Posted June 21 My friend told me it has something to do with my XI dunno for the fact that I kinda still like him cause hes such an asshole to me lol and I want what I can't haveughhh I dunno wtf it is I jus wish it would go away so I could have a man already damnit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Na I dunno about it having to do with an ex... The way I am is like... I like to be able to get a guy that I want and in my mind I feel like "o yea, I really like this guy, he's perfect for me" and he could play hard to get. But when I finally get him... I don't want him after awhile. I get bored fast and easily and then the whole process starts again and I don't know why! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronin Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 almost the same exact thing happened to me this week... The other night, I hung out with this girl i was like best friends who I wanted all through high school(she didnt want it to go further then friends). It was the first time in like 2 years we've seen each other, and she came out right and said I'm hot now yada yada... now wont stop callin me. I don't want her anymore though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdeep Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 This is why Autoeroticism is where it's at. My dick never gets tired of my right hand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 I think you need someone to treat you like shit Dee. Break your spirits and kill your self-esteeem. Then you'll latch onto him and he'll be your ideal boyfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted June 22 Author Report Share Posted June 22 Originally posted by ou812 I think you need someone to treat you like shit Dee. Break your spirits and kill your self-esteeem. Then you'll latch onto him and he'll be your ideal boyfriend. Nah I just think I need someone whos not all over me like white on rice:blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nayohmee Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 didnt you say you just got out of a breakup? it sounds like you're wanting to live it up and meet guys and all the ones youre meeting are getting way too attached and spoiling your fun. it happens i guess. it's not a terrible thing and it's not the weirdest thing i've ever heard. i think all girls go through that at some point or the other. the chase is a lot funner than the catch sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trueqwest Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 Originally posted by ou812 I think you need someone to treat you like shit Dee. Break your spirits and kill your self-esteeem. Then you'll latch onto him and he'll be your ideal boyfriend. I hate to say it, but he's right...it's almost like a part of growing up to become a woman, you want what you haven't got, and when you got it, you want something else. It's a pattern that women all over seem to fall into. Just a part of growing up, I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manji318 Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 I wouldn't worry about it, most likely that dude (paul walker) lost interest after he got some. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 Damn, im taking notes here I admit to once reading a journal of this girl i was going out with (yeah yeah, i know it's not right, but i caved in), and she wrote how i wasn't that much of a challenge But now i've learned to , as Dee said, not be "white on rice" and play the game a little. I hate these gamely things, but sometimes one must play it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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