dgmodel Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 anyone else feel, that much like in real estate, and business the key to it is location... do you think the same goes for relationships??? as in the right location to meet someone, or the right location for a date or the right locations for a first kiss, or the first time you sleep together??? i feel that all though its not the most important ingredient, its still one thats overlooked... ambience and location add to the feeling, and mood and make each of those events that much more sweeter... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 I always try to make my first anything special... Everything always adds up.. the place, the time, the mood, the weather, the sparks... etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nayohmee Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 oh hell yes. your environment effects your mood, your comfort level, your openness, etc... and all of those things are key in getting things going, for better or for worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodiii Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 i love first times...whatever they may be... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 100% Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 I don't know... I mean, yeah, ambiance can definitely be important... but then again, you can't discount the spontaneity factor... too much planning can lead to too much nervousness and ruin the first date/kiss/sex/etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 30 Author Report Share Posted June 30 no no no... not planning... just the right timing at the right place... im not saying plan it out three months in advance on a gibbus moon, with the wind going south west by west at 14knots blah etc... im saying just on a beach, or in the rain or after a beautiful night out as opposed to a drunken mess in a rinky bar or sitting next to a pile of puke near the restrooms, or something to that extent... follow??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 I see your point, I def agree. It is about location whether it be at the bar or down the street. Sometimes the timing can be wonderful. . . it is def overlooked:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 I see what you're saying. My answer is yes and no... sometimes, when you first meet someone, and you're having your first... whatever... you don't even notice the atmosphere that surrounds you. You may as well be in your own little world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 30 Author Report Share Posted June 30 and that too is a perfect location... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 Originally posted by dgmodel and that too is a perfect location... yeah, i think we all strive for that, but sometimes you can't help fate. Like say this:You have everything planned out: restaurant, your favorite bottle of wine, then a show at some club. But it turns out the performance sucked. Even though going into it , it sounded like a great idea, there are some things beyond your control that might work against it.But even IF something goe wrong, if the 2 of you have that *spark, errors in the plan shouldn't damper it too much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 30 Author Report Share Posted June 30 the sequence of events, and or the performance of them shouldnt really effect your overall feelings no? or am i wrong here??? lets say hypothetically speaking you and smurffette or prospect#x go to see lion king at the new amsterdam theatre, and the the performance is horrible, but you both had a great time hanging out with each other, i dont think thatll effect the overall mood or quality of the evening... at least it wouldnt for me... maybe i did not articulate my thoughts well enough in the initial post, but what im trying to say is most ppl take the firsts for granted and waste them... who knows... who cares... blah just another random thought i had... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 30 Report Share Posted June 30 Originally posted by dgmodel the sequence of events, and or the performance of them shouldnt really effect your overall feelings no? or am i wrong here??? lets say hypothetically speaking you and smurffette or prospect#x go to see lion king at the new amsterdam theatre, and the the performance is horrible, but you both had a great time hanging out with each other, i dont think thatll effect the overall mood or quality of the evening... at least it wouldnt for me... maybe i did not articulate my thoughts well enough in the initial post, but what im trying to say is most ppl take the firsts for granted and waste them... who knows... who cares... blah just another random thought i had... You're right~!the firsts always make a difference. And they prolly have a domino effect on all the following episodes.I remember the first time i really went out with smurfette. We went to see "Being John Malcovich", which was an iight movie... but after that we just walked around Manhattan and had a great time just being together.Everything just flowed so smoothly and well~~So yeah, that 1st time makes a big impression on the rest methinks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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