silverbull Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Why is love romance relationships soooooooo hard and painful. We never had a fight or arguement about until mayb4 months ago and then since then SIGH things have gone down. We are both complete oppoisites. Who knows maybe one day she will see things straiht who knows. The reasons are pretty dumb and i dont feel like putting them here. Besides i dont know many of ya anyhow. But i just thought i would say WOMEN SUCK. But women are also INCREDIBLE. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highmay Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 sorry to hear that bro...keep your head up...remember that women are just like men and they need their grieving period with themselves as well...then youll both notice that there are plenty of other women out there...if i were i'd go watch the movie Annie Hall...woody allen explained it PERFECTLY... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silverbull Posted July 12 Author Report Share Posted July 12 To be honest maybe cause it just happen, but i dont know if i want anybody else. Only time will tell right. Hey im from williamsburg/bushwick myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 breaking up is hard to do!go out and celebrate by getting laid! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Codica3 Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Originally posted by silverbull Why is love romance relationships soooooooo hard and painful. We never had a fight or arguement about until mayb4 months ago and then since then SIGH things have gone down. We are both complete oppoisites. Who knows maybe one day she will see things straiht who knows. The reasons are pretty dumb and i dont feel like putting them here. Besides i dont know many of ya anyhow. But i just thought i would say WOMEN SUCK. But women are also INCREDIBLE. Sorry to hear.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 I guess she found out that all your silver jewlery was in fact: fake, after all this time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Don't worry hunBreaking up is hard to do, especially when it's over stupid shit and you really can't understand why you to broke up, but when you can't see eye to eye with the person you love on anything it's just a painful realization that you to maybe aren't meant to be.The grieving period will be hard but trust me once you get over it, its all for the better. You will eventually move on and find someone who does see things the way you do, or at least accept them, and at that point you will be happy.Don't worry in no time you will be back to your good ol self and happier than ever, I am lol 6 Months single and I think it's probably been the best most productive 6 months of my life. I have learned a lot about myself as a person and as an individual. I have never been single this long and I'm loving every minute of it Enjoy your life and being young and single, that's what life is for:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slyonspromos Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Me and my ex broke up in february after 20 months it definitely sucks. You miss the companionship, the talks, the great times, and etc.... It hurts now but eventually you'll get over it. Mine took me a few months but now i actually see the true side of her. And o yeah if you try to be her friend.............DONT.......youll just get hurt and jealous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destinyschild Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Yo Silverbull sorry to hear that. I agree with the person that said it takes time to heal your wounds. I was in a somewhat similar situation but not as deep and it took a good amount of time to feel better. I haven't spoken to her in 6 months and not alot in the past year and a half and feel totally fine. I guess the first few months were the hard ones but it all became clear with time as someone else said on here also. Just keep your head up bud!Peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Originally posted by slyonspromos Me and my ex broke up in february after 20 months it definitely sucks. You miss the companionship, the talks, the great times, and etc.... It hurts now but eventually you'll get over it. Mine took me a few months but now i actually see the true side of her. And o yeah if you try to be her friend.............DONT.......youll just get hurt and jealous Amen!Trying to be friends with someone you spent so much time with just DOES NOT WORK OUT!!Things will never be the same, and I have come to terms that I will NEVER see my X in the same light I did before. True sides come out after a break up....sometimes its for the bestjust don't try and be friends, it's really not worth it:hat: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berniec Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 i remember someone on here's ex or bf or whatever going down around that time- i'm pretty sure it was the kid from SI that was involved wit somebody on here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silverbull Posted July 12 Author Report Share Posted July 12 thanks everybody for the great advcie. and as much asit hurts me i can no longer have her in my life as a friend only. I hear alot about people feeling better after their relationship cause they see thins clearer. Hopefully i will be the same, but it hurts so much. Luckily i work in a hair salon again (finally although only 2 days) so b4 i met me ex i was sleeping with my customers so now i guess i will do it again. And of course thiers always the clubs to satisfy my sexual needs. Right now i dont feel like meeting anybody for something serious. More so that i gave my ex so much love that i dont think i can gve it to anybody else for a long long time. HEY QUOTH wow your words have damaged me for life i cant believe the pain im feeling cause of your comments.SHEESH. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 Originally posted by berniec i remember someone on here's ex or bf or whatever going down around that time- i'm pretty sure it was the kid from SI that was involved wit somebody on here. Yea my X from SI was the one in that drug bustBut I was talking bout my recent XMy X from SI him and I have ALWAYS been friends but im not gonna get into that;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by silverbull HEY QUOTH wow your words have damaged me for life i cant believe the pain im feeling cause of your comments.SHEESH. aw cheer up u whiney bastard...the least i could do is force a laugh out yer mouth...we all been we u are at....time is now yer new best friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weed247 Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Tonight,one of my friend got broken up with his girlfriend of almost 2yrs.Goof Luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by silverbull Why is love romance relationships soooooooo hard and painful. We never had a fight or arguement about until mayb4 months ago and then since then SIGH things have gone down. We are both complete oppoisites. Who knows maybe one day she will see things straiht who knows. The reasons are pretty dumb and i dont feel like putting them here. Besides i dont know many of ya anyhow. But i just thought i would say WOMEN SUCK. But women are also INCREDIBLE. sorry to hear... (first sign is that you never had arguments, secondly if youre going to live your life hoping she gets back into yours she never will...) count your gains cut your losses and take this oppurtunity to reflect on your own life, and your own feelings and do somethings you havent been able to do or have been wanting to do... look at this as a blessing in disguise... i know you prolly dont want to hear any of this or means nothing coming from some fool on a msg board but whatever you do not try to force her back into your life, youll only push her further away... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by dgmodel sorry to hear... (first sign is that you never had arguments, secondly if youre going to live your life hoping she gets back into yours she never will...) count your gains cut your losses and take this oppurtunity to reflect on your own life, and your own feelings and do somethings you havent been able to do or have been wanting to do... look at this as a blessing in disguise... i know you prolly dont want to hear any of this or means nothing coming from some fool on a msg board but whatever you do not try to force her back into your life, youll only push her further away... Could not have said it better myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 thank you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silverbull Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 great words dgmodel and your right. There were kinda alot of things i would hold back cause of her. i guess im goin ot go and get my piercings now. Like the guy from the band DISTURBED. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbolboy Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by silverbull Why is love romance relationships soooooooo hard and painful. We never had a fight or arguement about until mayb4 months ago and then since then SIGH things have gone down. We are both complete oppoisites. Who knows maybe one day she will see things straiht who knows. The reasons are pretty dumb and i dont feel like putting them here. Besides i dont know many of ya anyhow. But i just thought i would say WOMEN SUCK. But women are also INCREDIBLE. i feel u bro, its tough:mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by silverbull great words dgmodel and your right. There were kinda alot of things i would hold back cause of her. i guess im goin ot go and get my piercings now. Like the guy from the band DISTURBED. go for it... believe me i can relate, (not that i know what youre going through or what you exactly feel because everyone is different and every relationship as well however i went through a horrific breakup that left me haggard and distraught and i made every mistake possible in attempts to get her back... so now i just try to pay my experiences forward so my friends dont make the same mistakes) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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