euphoricgirl Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 OK WTF???? Is my friend stupid or what......He went out with this girl for 1 week and she was a total airhead but looked hot. she didnt even know how to sit proper, or eat outside and was in la la land..lolAnd then he meets this girl, they talk on the phone for 5 hours..she has a great body, cute face, shy, very intelligent, but goes back to the airhead? wtf? So he goes back with the airhead...and realizes how stupid his desicion was.....but obviously its too lateWould you choose looks over personality? i certainly would not ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aphelion Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Probably... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Most likely people would lie and say personality.... which is bullshit ofcoz. Perception...we get attracted to people at first mostly becoz of looks.... things like attitude is a plus you find along the way.And as far as the airhead goes, I would rather stick with that...experience has taught me that they are more fun anywayz:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
euphoricgirl Posted July 19 Author Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by magellanmax Most likely people would lie and say personality.... which is bullshit ofcoz. Perception...we get attracted to people at first mostly becoz of looks.... things like attitude is a plus you find along the way.And as far as the airhead goes, I would rather stick with that...experience has taught me that they are more fun anywayz:D hahah....i agree....dont get me wrong looks are important but an airhead...the other girl was cute too....i dunno wtf he was thinking...lost a great girl...the airhead only lasted for 3 weeks..when he finally realized how clueless she was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 obviously looks are an important factor in attraction... but i could never like someone who has the personaility of a doorknob. good humor, intelligence and individuality are REAAALLY important. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 I got extremely luckymy wife has both looks and personality Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
euphoricgirl Posted July 19 Author Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa I got extremely luckymy wife has both looks and personality i hope i get that lucky! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa I got extremely luckymy wife has both looks and personality all that and a giant sig too....haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by euphoricgirl OK WTF???? Is my friend stupid or what......He went out with this girl for 1 week and she was a total airhead but looked hot. she didnt even know how to sit proper, or eat outside and was in la la land..lolAnd then he meets this girl, they talk on the phone for 5 hours..she has a great body, cute face, shy, very intelligent, but goes back to the airhead? wtf? So he goes back with the airhead...and realizes how stupid his desicion was.....but obviously its too lateWould you choose looks over personality? i certainly would not ..... i wish there was a third answer i dont have either... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 IMO- looks will initially attract the person... but its the personality that keeps them around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by mssabina good humor, intelligence and individuality are REAAALLY important. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by euphoricgirl i hope i get that lucky! never settle and u willdont settle for what u haveuntil u get what u wantand as for the sigyou can never....ever go wrong withCARMEN ELECTRA :eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted July 19 Report Share Posted July 19 Originally posted by linabina IMO- looks will initially attract the person... but its the personality that keeps them around. Look at it the other way around........ if you hooked up with a person with great personality, sooner or later, that mediocre face will get to you especially if you see other people bask in the company of good looking peeps and hence,..you wont be around either Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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solbeam Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 I love that good humor pic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Originally posted by magellanmax Look at it the other way around........ if you hooked up with a person with great personality, sooner or later, that mediocre face will get to you especially if you see other people bask in the company of good looking peeps and hence,..you wont be around either im sorry but i dont think that made sense...come again? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 possibly hes saying when the novelty of their personality wears off, youre left with a mediocre partner, which your friends or ppl you hang out with will criticize (since theyre fixated on aesthetics more than internals) and theyre criticisms will eventually get the best of you... (i hope thats what he was implying because thats how i interpreted it) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Looks always attrack you to someone but its the personality that pulls you in further.. Well at least for me its what matter the most Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Originally posted by naughtybabe Looks always attrack you to someone but its the personality that pulls you in further.. Well at least for me its what matter the most thats exactly what i meant by what i said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Originally posted by linabina thats exactly what i meant by what i said Great minds always think alike Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 my question how do you define a good looking person and how do you define a great personality??? what if its the personality that makes the person beautiful, then wouldnt you have the best of both worlds??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 20 Report Share Posted July 20 Originally posted by dgmodel what if its the personality that makes the person beautiful, then wouldnt you have the best of both worlds??? You said it... the person would have the best of both worlds Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 Originally posted by dgmodel my question how do you define a good looking person and how do you define a great personality??? what if its the personality that makes the person beautiful, then wouldnt you have the best of both worlds??? I think it's very relative. Each person looks for a different personality, and respectively they attract a certain kind of personality.Some guys like bitches that whip them. Therefore they should be with a bossy bitch.Some girls like a funny guy who can make them laugh. So laughter is more important...But in any way, i agree with Lina and Naughty. Looks only go so far. It's the personality that keeps that person around Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 bear with for a hot ny minute :Three guys hanging out by the bar and three gals..one frigging hot !! and the other two are so-so. So, I ask, when exactly does the part come when guys say : the other two average might have better personality, lets go for them? Am i missing something here. Even more so, after realizing that looks arent everything, how many honestly say they wont try and go for the most good looking over and over again? Please, save that looks will take you so far, coz you know what?..u'll be back for more Thats why we get into relationships and ship right out,..... life is a merry-go-around...when your ride is over, you just jump into the next one.....But I'm not here to burst anyones bubble....to each their own..be it living a lie or facing reality. Happy sailings in fairyland, send me a postcard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted July 21 Report Share Posted July 21 Since I'm on a roll here, allow me to add something else.Roseane Barr and Whoopi G. are some of my favorite women personalities in hollywood, God knows, they make me laugh and feel good about life. I think that qualifies as people with good personalities..no??But then again, how many times have you opened the tabloids or watched a show like ET and happened to catch a juicy gossip of their love lifes? You think its a coincedence ?? Maybe it could be. But the million dollar question: How come "hot guys" arent beating a path to their cribs to woo them ? huh? When does their train(turn) come in ??Life is vicious, its not intentional, but its the mother nature intended it to be. You can call me shallow, but its a fact, and I'm sure some people have found this out firsthand. But it doesnt necessarily mean life is over...just keep fingers crossed.sorry for wasting your time reading this. Muuuah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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