dgmodel Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 you know when someone likes you a lot, and they push and push and push and you just dont like them, and they like you more, and it becomes this big tangled crap... what would happen if you just totally flipped the script, and became batty over them... like you came on twice as strong as them back to them??? you think theyd be repelled then, and the albatross on your neck will be gone, or do you think itll make things worse??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 It's hard to say since I've never seen or heared of someone doing that.. A couple of things can happen (I think).....1- You can push the person away and make them not like you2- You can make them like you more.. making them think that you like them back and that they now have a chance... I think it's best to just leave it as it is and try to move on..leave it all to fate... I always say that whats meant to be willbe and noone can change it or stop it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 27 Author Report Share Posted July 27 well i understand what youre saying, and i used to think like that however i dont anymore... fate maybe bullshit... and waiting for things to happen (and goods things come to those that wait) is like a rocking chair... although it gives you something to do it really gets you nowhere... its like saying if i was supposed to eat the food would jump off my plate and into my mouth... no, theres work thats involved, and is a must... if its attainable youll reach your goal if its not youll know off the bat... no point in wallowing in false hope, and setting yourself up for a huge let down... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 So you are saying that if a guy likes me and I don't like him all I should do is come on to him twice as strong as he does to meand that will make him not like me anymore?.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 27 Author Report Share Posted July 27 yes... id like to see the results... lol, in all seriousl i am kidding in my first post... however curious to know if itll work... clearly if one likes someone, and the person does not feel the same, they should say it from the begining... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by dgmodel ... its like saying if i was supposed to eat the food would jump off my plate and into my mouth... no, theres work thats involved, lol...i always love your analogies...but, when it comes to love, and fate, and destiny....or just to summarize....matters of the heart.....Logic dosen't make sense nor does it apply. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 i know this is the oldest saying in the book but... if its meant to be , its meant to be ... i dont think you can make anyone feel or act a certain way ... just take it slow & see what happens ... if you come on to her & scare her away or push her away then it just aint meant to be... just my 2 cents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by naughtybabe It's hard to say since I've never seen or heared of someone doing that.. A couple of things can happen (I think).....1- You can push the person away and make them not like you2- You can make them like you more.. making them think that you like them back and that they now have a chance... I think it's best to just leave it as it is and try to move on..leave it all to fate... I always say that whats meant to be willbe and noone can change it or stop it... i got like half way throught this...god damn thats confusing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodiii Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by dgmodel you know when someone likes you a lot, and they push and push and push and you just dont like them, and they like you more, and it becomes this big tangled crap... what would happen if you just totally flipped the script, and became batty over them... like you came on twice as strong as them back to them??? you think theyd be repelled then, and the albatross on your neck will be gone, or do you think itll make things worse??? i wouldn't try it dog...it'll definitely just make it worse...if you fake likin her... you could even start believin it...you'll find yourself a year later with a girlfriend you hate and won't remember how you got there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 leading someone on who likes you isn't going to repel them. it'll just hurt them even more in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by naughtybabe It's hard to say since I've never seen or heared of someone doing that.. A couple of things can happen (I think).....1- You can push the person away and make them not like you2- You can make them like you more.. making them think that you like them back and that they now have a chance... I think it's best to just leave it as it is and try to move on..leave it all to fate... I always say that whats meant to be willbe and noone can change it or stop it... i think its #2 in most cases...it's just better to be honest, you know...lying will only make things worse for them...you cant help how you feel but you dont have to be a dick about it...just my .02 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc leading someone on who likes you isn't going to repel them. it'll just hurt them even more in the end. i agree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 27 Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by fineones i got like half way throught this...god damn thats confusing I still love you... .. I'll explain it to ya later Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 27 Author Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by marcid21 lol...i always love your analogies...but, when it comes to love, and fate, and destiny....or just to summarize....matters of the heart.....Logic dosen't make sense nor does it apply. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 27 Author Report Share Posted July 27 Originally posted by bodiii you'll find yourself a year later with a girlfriend you hate and won't remember how you got there... :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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