how many times have u cheated

[georgym]

Originally posted by darlok

Read between the lines (THINK) and then open ur mouth cuz u missed the point, by a HUGE margin.

But see.. ur a perfect example of a person with wayyy too much pride in him. U are not innocent just blind and in denial. Anyway...

I understand your point (cheating has more definitions than the usual "physical" type), but YOU should REALIZE that thoughts and actions are 2 different things.

Thoughts are lingering things that are only in the mind, not played out. Actions are actually played out.

So yeah, im sure that everyone has checked out someone else even though they were in a relationship. But it's ACTING on those thoughts that is truly cheating.

ANd oh, here's a hypothetical situation: say you just got some ice cream, cookies n cream flavor. But right after you someone ordered cookie dough. You realize you made a mistake and really wanted cookie dough.

You can either say to yourself "eh, i'll get cookie dough next time and appreciate the cookies n creme for what it is now", or you can punch the guy who has cookie dough and snatch his ice cream.

Case in point: we all cheat in one way or another (we're only human) , but cheating to the point where we hurt others just ain't right

[darlok]

Originally posted by gmccookny

I understand your point (cheating has more definitions than the usual "physical" type), but YOU should REALIZE that thoughts and actions are 2 different things.

Thoughts are lingering things that are only in the mind, not played out. Actions are actually played out.

So yeah, im sure that everyone has checked out someone else even though they were in a relationship. But it's ACTING on those thoughts that is truly cheating.

ANd oh, here's a hypothetical situation: say you just got some ice cream, cookies n cream flavor. But right after you someone ordered cookie dough. You realize you made a mistake and really wanted cookie dough.

You can either say to yourself "eh, i'll get cookie dough next time and appreciate the cookies n creme for what it is now", or you can punch the guy who has cookie dough and snatch his ice cream.

Case in point: we all cheat in one way or another (we're only human) , but cheating to the point where we hurt others just ain't right

Good point.. But cookie.. Let me share something with u. Pornstars.. Most of them get into the business just to make some quick $ and then quit. They don't consider themselves to be (whores) at the early stage of their career. Nooo.. it's only after ppl see them on TV and project negative thoughts about them which do AFFECT them and lowers their self esteem. (Indirectly without them even knowin it) Then, they are regarded as Ho's and good for nothing by their ownself And they just cover up their insecurities just like that Jenna Jameson She's a sad cookie ;\

It's not only with pornstars.. Same with hookers and everyone else. They are good ppl really but mentally destroyed by scum. If that person valued themselves ppl's negative thoughts would bounce off and not affect them Later on in life you'll realize that everything affects everyone because in a true sense u and everyone else are 1 in the same.

Darlok

K.. let me rephrase my other post. PHYSICAL CHEATING (ACTION)is what EVERYONE DID once upon a time. MENTAL CHEATING is what everyone has been been doin up to the present time. THERE is a BIG DIFF between the 2. (Physical is much worse than mental so ur right) but u missed the point about cheating, because u don't even know how old u are

BTW, cookie.. If we're all human.. why do u scoop down so low as to compare us and our choices to Ice cream flavors? U can only like ice cream not love them.

[georgym]

Originally posted by darlok

BTW, cookie.. If we're all human.. why do u scoop down so low as to compare us and our choices to Ice cream flavors? U can only like ice cream not love them.

Speak for yourself! Ever had Ben n Jerry's Phish food? Or Haagen Daaz cookies n creme?

But for real, i don't look at it as scooping down so low. it's just an example to understand people's choices and how their primal behaviors can be subdued.

Darlok man, i do actually dig some of your opinions. Very Psychological and almost buddhist. Makes people really look intrinsically onto themselves.

But we're all not "Lost children". I feel bad for people who look up to movie and porn stars as deities, but i also don't think so many people cheat as you state.

I do feel that modern media is a terrible tool that subconsciously manipulates peoples' minds and leads them to behave a way out of the ordinary.

I just hope that we can look beyond media and some of our peers who influence us in a negative way, and think for ourselves with a moral standard behind everything we do

[darlok]

Originally posted by gmccookny

Speak for yourself! Ever had Ben n Jerry's Phish food? Or Haagen Daaz cookies n creme?

But for real, i don't look at it as scooping down so low. it's just an example to understand people's choices and how their primal behaviors can be subdued.

Darlok man, i do actually dig some of your opinions. Very Psychological and almost buddhist. Makes people really look intrinsically onto themselves.

But we're all not "Lost children". I feel bad for people who look up to movie and porn stars as deities, but i also don't think so many people cheat as you state.

I do feel that modern media is a terrible tool that subconsciously manipulates peoples' minds and leads them to behave a way out of the ordinary.

I just hope that we can look beyond media and some of our peers who influence us in a negative way, and think for ourselves with a moral standard behind everything we do

Lol.... Cool ;0 I'm glad someone understands and likes the same ice cream brand as i do Yummmy.. BEN & JERRY's

But dude.. Choices like ice cream flavors are unimportn and have no real affect on ppl in the long run. Cheatin does though.. ;\ U do not know u cheated because u don't realize that u are more than a thousand yrs old.

We are lost children.. Face it bro.. humans have the ability to adapt to any environment.. Put a man in hell, and he'll delude himself into thinkin he's in heaven in no time. Did u not notice how desperate everyone was while lookin for the light durin the blackout? Heh..

It's sad what the media does *nods*

Darlok

[dgmodel]

Originally posted by nynyny

if only money could buy true love.

you cant buy love but you can sure as hell lease the shit out of it...

[solbeam]

Originally posted by dgmodel

you cant buy love but you can sure as hell lease the shit out of it...

and then you end up with nothing...what you put in is always more than what you get out of it in the end

[darlok]

Originally posted by dgmodel

you cant buy love but you can sure as hell lease the shit out of it...

Nah.. U cannot buy nor lease True Love.. because it is Perfect.. What u lease is Lust.. Dgmodel.. ur an example of someone heavily influenced by an immoral society's Media.. Because u can't tell love apart from lust.

Heh. SOlbeam..

What happend to the ppl who always REACH FOR THE STARS?? *SIGH* I swear.. I think those types are a dying breed nowadays.. Look at ur expectations of what LOVE ought to be. it's depressing

[naughtybabe]

I always reach for the stars...

[solbeam]

Originally posted by darlok

Nah.. U cannot buy nor lease True Love.. because it is Perfect.. What u lease is Lust.. Dgmodel.. ur an example of someone heavily influenced by an immoral society's Media.. Because u can't tell love apart from lust.

Heh. SOlbeam..

What happend to the ppl who always REACH FOR THE STARS?? *SIGH* I swear.. I think those types are a dying breed nowadays.. Look at ur expectations of what LOVE ought to be. it's depressing

wtf are you talking about...I never said anything about my expectation of love...

I was commenting on what DG said...

[tastey]

Originally posted by gmccookny

I understand your point (cheating has more definitions than the usual "physical" type), but YOU should REALIZE that thoughts and actions are 2 different things.

Thoughts are lingering things that are only in the mind, not played out. Actions are actually played out.

So yeah, im sure that everyone has checked out someone else even though they were in a relationship. But it's ACTING on those thoughts that is truly cheating.

ANd oh, here's a hypothetical situation: say you just got some ice cream, cookies n cream flavor. But right after you someone ordered cookie dough. You realize you made a mistake and really wanted cookie dough.

You can either say to yourself "eh, i'll get cookie dough next time and appreciate the cookies n creme for what it is now", or you can punch the guy who has cookie dough and snatch his ice cream.

Case in point: we all cheat in one way or another (we're only human) , but cheating to the point where we hurt others just ain't right

i agree with you here when you say that thoughts are thoughts and actions are actions.

just read nancy friday´s "my secret garden" and you´ll see how many women (as well as men) have to some very twisted fantasies. rape fantasies, gang bang fantasies, humiliation fantasies, etc.. but these are FANTASIES. they don´t REALLY want someone to rape them, they wouldn´t REALLY put themselves in a situation where they would be gang-banged by a football team, etc.

thoughts are thoughts. in fantasy, everything is possible. what counts is what you DO, as you said.

however, about your "hypothetical situation" dude. what if i have so much appetite and so much money that i can AFFORD to have BOTH. the cookies n cream flavor AND cookie dough?

to take that back to the dating frame, what if i have so much lust and energy, and so much value (in the woman´s eyes) that i can AFFORD to take BOTH into my life?

wouldn´t it be NATURAL for me not to settle for less and therefor to take BOTH? or if i really simply liked the one flavor (woman) better then the other to just throw away the one i like less and get the new one? its just ICE CREAM after all !

see, you´re coming from a position of scarcity. if you come from a position of CHOICE your whole perspective changes.

[tastey]

Originally posted by darlok

U do not know u cheated because u don't realize that u are more than a thousand yrs old.

LOL, been to scientology lately??

"you are all sinners! maybe not in your present life but in your past lifes!! if you don´t want to get back to hell (which is earth according to you ) join our church and you´ll get to heaven!!"

what the FUCK have you been smoking??

[dgmodel]

Originally posted by solbeam

and then you end up with nothing...what you put in is always more than what you get out of it in the end

much like after a breakup...

[darlok]

Originally posted by solbeam

wtf are you talking about...I never said anything about my expectation of love...

I was commenting on what DG said...

Solbeam that wasn't aimed toward you .. but rather to everyone as a whole.

Alright Naughtybabe ;0 Keep on reachin ;0

Originally posted by tastey

however, about your "hypothetical situation" dude. what if i have so much appetite and so much money that i can AFFORD to have BOTH. the cookies n cream flavor AND cookie dough?

Err.. Celebrities will always have much more $ than u, and even though they can have 10000x diff ice cream flavors, they'll always be miserable because at the end they'll realize they have NOTHING. U cannot have both. Either u treasure Love or Greed.

Originally posted by tastey

wouldn´t it be NATURAL for me not to settle for less and therefor to take BOTH? or if i really simply liked the one flavor (woman) better then the other to just throw away the one i like less and get the new one? its just ICE CREAM after all !

Tastey, ur a man whore. Heh. If u like a girl kiss her.. If you love her, f*ck her. But i tell u the truth.. Unless u see God face to face u cannot know LOVE, so how can u share with someone something u don't have?

Originally posted by tastey

see, you´re coming from a position of scarcity. if you come from a position of CHOICE your whole perspective changes.

No.. I'm comin from a position where I don't treat PPL as Objects like u just did.

Darlok

[tastey]

Originally posted by darlok

Err.. Celebrities will always have much more $ than u, and even though they can have 10000x diff ice cream flavors, they'll always be miserable because at the end they'll realize they have NOTHING. U cannot have both. Either u treasure Love or Greed.

dude... what i think fucks those celebrity guys and girls up is the fact that they are FUCKING GOOD at focussing on the bad parts of their life. however good your life is, there´s always something you can find that you can be sad or upset about. many people are REALLY good at this, not just celebrities... and don´t tell me there are no happy and content celebrities lol

you offer me your limited belief... "either or"... i say FUCK your limiting belief and take what you want out of life.

Tastey, ur a man whore. Heh. If u like a girl kiss her.. If you love her, f*ck her. But i tell u the truth.. Unless u see God face to face u cannot know LOVE, so how can u share with someone something u don't have?

so... and you have seen god?

lmao dude. what church do you belong to?

[darlok]

Originally posted by tastey

dude... what i think fucks those celebrity guys and girls up is the fact that they are FUCKING GOOD at focussing on the bad parts of their life. however good your life is, there´s always something you can find that you can be sad or upset about. many people are REALLY good at this, not just celebrities... and don´t tell me there are no happy and content celebrities lol

you offer me your limited belief... "either or"... i say FUCK your limiting belief and take what you want out of life.

so... and you have seen god?

lmao dude. what church do you belong to?

There is NO celebrity that is truly happy. Heh.. What are u blind?? Do u not see how they try to sugar coat their misery on camera during interviews or late night shows. Celebrities have the most F*CKED up lives. NO privacy, no nothing!! They have the most to loose and u bet ur ass they're worried about it.

Yeah i did.. Everyone can. U cannot find GOD with a logical mind but when u look with ur heart. Viola, u shall see him as he is. Bliss and Ecstacy.. I'm from the church of God.. The one and only that ceased to exist on this planet the day Jesus died.

[georgym]

Originally posted by tastey

however, about your "hypothetical situation" dude. what if i have so much appetite and so much money that i can AFFORD to have BOTH. the cookies n cream flavor AND cookie dough?

to take that back to the dating frame, what if i have so much lust and energy, and so much value (in the woman´s eyes) that i can AFFORD to take BOTH into my life?

wouldn´t it be NATURAL for me not to settle for less and therefor to take BOTH? or if i really simply liked the one flavor (woman) better then the other to just throw away the one i like less and get the new one? its just ICE CREAM after all !

see, you´re coming from a position of scarcity. if you come from a position of CHOICE your whole perspective changes.

I mean, you can try to do that, but somehow i bet you'll be leaving someone out.

No one is Zeus. No one is Sampson. You can try to be "The MAck Daddy" and balance 2 girls at once, but eventually one will find out, or one will catch on, and you're screwed. Girls have a much keener sense for these things

And plus, it's gluttony, one of the cardinal sins. You're basically saying that one girl isn't enough, so you need 2 (or more) to fulfill your fantasies.

I don't think any guy should need more than one girl , unless he is dating casually.

I look for that one to fulfill all my needs